It’s currently 10:17 and I just got on my flight home to Kansas City as I write this. I cannot believe that I have already finished my first quarter in college. I should have believed people when they say that college goes by in the blink of an eye. I’ve learned a lot these past ten weeks that I could not have learned anywhere else but college. So, here are the nine things that I have learned I miss the most while going to college in Chicago in no particular order…
1. Home Sweet Home
Obviously, I had to start here because this was the inevitable that I failed and refused to see coming, yet once it did…it hit me like a freaking truck. I never thought I would be that person who misses home and everything that comes with. I was so beyond thrilled to leave home and discover myself in a place that was far enough from home that I could do it on my own.
2. A Room To Yourself
I know that anyone can attest to this, but as much as I agree that living in a dorm is all part of the college experience, boy do I sure miss having a bed that is larger than a twin-sized bed. I miss having a room to myself that I can blast my music when I’m getting ready even if it is past quiet hours!
3. The Pet
Of course, the dog! I did not realize how much I would miss having a little (or large) furry, four-legged friend to be by your side whenever you need them to. Anyone who knows me, knows that I’m a dog person. Dogs are one of the world’s greatest gift and there definitely is truth behind the fact that a dog is a man’s (in my case: woman’s) best friend.
4. Not Having to Provide Your Own Food
Let’s be honest here everyone, the food that you eat in college I without a doubt some of the worst food you will ever have. It simply just cannot compare to a home-cooked meal by your parents. Yes, pizza and mac & cheese is great at 1 am but come on now.
5. Making Money
Living in Chicago sure does come with a high price. I miss having a decent enough income to not feel guilty when I decide to get a Venti Latte at Starbucks instead of a Tall. I never realized how much having a job benefited you and as much as my job annoyed me at sometimes, I sure do miss it.
6. Best Friends
This is for my best friends who have been with me through thick and thin. You guys know who you are. I was always hesitant how long distance friendships would work once put to the test, but the distance did not seem to be an issue. I absolutely cannot wait to see all of you guys.
7. Family
Although, my family may be small because there is only three of us, I would not change them for the world. My parent’s and I have always had good relationships with the normal rough patches here and there. I genuinely hate not having my support system being able to be there with me as I find myself in these next fours. My grandma (Gee) and grandpa (Papa), are my two other most favorite people in the world. Grandparents are the best because you cannot get in trouble with them and they always have your back even if you are in conflict with your parents. Family has always been so important to me, and not being able to have the option to see them every day is what has been the most tough.
8. My Car
I know that in today’s society it is a privilege to have a car. As much as I was not a fan of driving, I really am not a massive fan of the Chicago traffic. It’s best that I did not have a car here because let’s be honest here people…driving is not my best quality.
9. Kansas City
I absolutely cannot believe that I am saying this but I miss Kansas City. I miss not having traffic, even though the construction sucks and has been going for what seems like forever. I miss the local coffee shops. I miss how friendly the people were. I miss my high school and the comfort and security it provided me. I miss how winter is not as brutal as Chicago and that fall is the best and most beautiful time of the year. I miss it. I miss it a lot. I miss home.
This is all a part of life, college, and growing up. I am happy and blessed to further my education, but going away is tough. Now there are a ton of cons too but that’s for another time! Anyways, for all the college kids, hug your family at Thanksgiving and Christmas, enjoy the food, make new memories with friends, but most importantly enjoy the idea of just being able to consul in the places you call home.
"and in the end, letting go was a lot like finding love. i had to learn to say goodbye to the ones who gave me the courage to say hello." -R.M. Drake
xoxo,
cgl
