Adopting my dog was one of the best decisions that I've ever made. His constantly happy face and wagging tail the moment I walk in my front door is exactly what I need after a long day. He's my running partner and my hiking sidekick, and despite how much he resists, he's also gets to curl up with me and watch Netflix (until he decides he's bored and runs away). But despite all of the amazing qualities and joy he brings me, having a dog is a lot of work. Gone are the carefree days where I lacked any responsibilities, because I now have been forced to become a (semi) responsible adult.
Here are seven ways being a dog parent forces you to grow up:
1. You have to use time management.
You can no longer stay away from home for more than a four to five hour period, because you now have someone waiting at home who probably needs to go to the bathroom.
2. You have to stay organized.
Do you enjoy having shoes that don't have chew marks or textbooks with the covers still attached? If so, then you will learn immediately after getting a dog that those items will become his or her new chew toy if you don't put them away.
3. You have to budget your money.
Dog food and toys can get pretty pricey, not to mention unexpected costs, like surgeries and medicine for when they get injured or sick. You have to make sure to set enough money aside for all of your dog's needs in order to keep them happy and healthy.
4. You have to keep your dog, and yourself, healthy.
Adding to number three, you have to be prepared to make appointments, whether for shots or for sudden illnesses, and you have the responsibility to give them the appropriate medicine when needed. Likewise, you also have to make sure to keep yourself well enough to be able to take your dog on walks and care for them, since they can't do things for themselves.
5. You have to learn how to clean.
From potting training to upset stomachs, some of the messes you'll have to clean up are brutal. It takes a strong stomach and good (pet-safe) cleaning supplies to keep your home clean and sanitary.
6. You have to be patient.
If you have a dog that was previously mistreated like mine, you will have to take the time to work through some of the issues caused from their previous life. They can't tell you what they went through, so you have to remember to stay patient when they become skittish, anxious, or even turn aggressive due to normal, everyday events. Not to mention the hours you will have to spend teaching them manners.
7. You have to know that they won't be here forever.
As much as thinking of that dreadful day make me one to hug my dog and never let go, you have to be able to acknowledge that dogs don't live as long as humans. It's important to love them, spend as much time as possible with them while they are here, and appreciate all of the happiness that they bring into your life every single day.
Think you can handle becoming responsible and rescuing a pet? Check out your local humane society or rescue groups in your area to find the perfect animal for you. There are thousands of loving animals waiting to find their forever home and become your best friend!
