1. I can do anything.
When I was debating transferring to OU, I wasn't sure if I could do it. It was a whole new environment, a whole new social life and a completely different academic expectation. I went for it and I learned that I can do so much more than I ever thought I could.
2. No, I can't do everything.
Coming to a new, huge school I got really excited at the involvement fair and I think I signed up for about twenty different clubs. I had a small “come to Jesus” moment when my inbox was flooded with emails for events I wouldn’t ever have time to attend. I realized maybe I can’t juggle work, school, sorority and every club that I've ever been interested in. I had to step away from a few of those things so I could focus on what I’m really passionate about.
3. Different schools expect different work.
Probably the biggest difference between a tiny christian college and a big state university was the academic expectations. I had to adjust to a much harder course load and my professors expected more of me than I had gotten used to. I had to learn how to study and adjust my learning style to match what OU offered.
4. It’s okay not to know what you’re doing.
There were so many times in my first few weeks I had no idea where I was or where I was supposed to be. I had to learn to be comfortable asking for help and directions whether it be how to get to the Union or how to meet with my advisor.
5. You can make friends wherever you go.
One of my biggest fears about transferring was that I wouldn’t be able to find any friends since everyone already had their friend groups. I learned that if you get involved and be nice to people, you’ll make all sorts of amazing friends you would have never expected to find!
6. It’s all about attitude.
I made a choice to focus on all the amazing things about my new school instead of getting stuck on the little annoyances. Like yeah, there’s no parking but we have football and that’s a trade I’ll take any day.
