5 Things Third-Wheelers Know To Be True

5 Things Third-Wheelers Know To Be True

Everyone has felt like a third wheel at some point in their lives, you're not alone.

Chances are that you have been or felt like the third wheel at some point in your life. Having two best friends that are dating can put you in an awkward position. And even though being a third wheel may feel like the loneliest place on earth, you're not alone!

1. You have the benefit off having two best friends.

A lot of people go their entire lives looking for that friendship that will last through the test of time, and few people ever find someone that they can call their best friend. You, on the other hand, have the ability to say that you have two best friends, that you love equally.

2. You learn how to solve relationship problems

When your friends get into a fight, you're most likely going to be caught in the middle of it. Although it may be annoying and stressful because you don't want to come in between them, you learn how to solve problems in a mature manner. This problem solving skill not only comes in handy in your friendship triangle situation, but in every relationship in your life, currently and in the future.

3. The opportunity to have a double date is ALWAYS there.

Having friends that are dating couldn't be any better when it comes to your own dating life. Now you can make first dates less awkward by bringing your two biggest supporters, and of course you need to get their approval before dating anyone. Killing two birds with one stone.

4. You have to deal with PDA. All day.

PDA comes along with being in a relationship, especially in the beginning stages. It is just something that you have to deal with, because you love them and are happy that they are happy. Putting up with the excessive amounts of PDA is your way of saying "I love you", which is much more personal than eating someone's face off.

5. At the end of the day, you could always be the 5th wheel.

There are times you feel left out and lonely, but always remember that you could be the fifth wheel! This picture makes being a third wheel look like something beyond amazing.

At the end of the day, they are your best friends and no matter what happens they will be there for you. Maybe one day side walks will be wide enough for three.

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1. You will have separation anxiety right off the bat.

2. You get irrationally jealous when they post a picture with someone else.

3. You literally text each other about everything, and I mean everything.

4. You know better than to call them if you have less than an hour to talk.

5. You stalk their Instagram so you still feel like a part of their life.

6. All your school friends know who they are because you're constantly telling stories about them.

7. When you come home for breaks they're usually the first person you see.

8. They're also usually the last person you see.

9. Your Snapchat streak is abnormally high.

10. You tell them you love them more than your significant other.

11. You send an average of 400 texts to each other in one day.

12. You miss having someone you don't have to explain anything to.

To my person, I love you no matter the distance! Thanks for always being there for me.

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12 Solid Date Ideas For The Indecisive Couple Who Can Never Make Up Their Minds

"Where do you want to eat?" "I don't know."


Are you and your boo/bae always trying to figure out what to do but can't seem to agree on something? Do you usually ask, "Where do you want to eat?" and they reply with, "I don't know," making you bang your head against the wall until your unconscious? If you said yes to any of these questions, you're reading the right article. Dates don't have to be so complex, so why do we always make them feel that way?

Here are 12 date ideas for all you indecisive couples out there who just can't seem to get it right:

1. Watch the Sunset 

Grab a blanket and some snacks and head on over to the beach or the park and watch the sunset. It's not only romantic, but it's also a great way to appreciate nature and the world around you.

2. Game Night

Like to get a little competitive? Have a game night and break out "Monopoly" or "Cards Against Humanity" or any other of your favorites.

3. Go to Ikea

Yes, Ikea dates are a thing. They have food there in case you get hungry, and you get to look at so many interesting pieces of furniture. You can spend hours there getting lost all while spending time with someone you enjoy.

4. Walk Around Your Favorite Book Store

If you have a local bookstore or a Barnes and Noble, walk around the isles and discover new books to read. Maybe pick out a book you can read together and grab some coffee.

5. Adult Treasure Hunt With the Geocaching App

There's this app called Geocaching, which is basically a treasure hunt for adults. You turn on your location and it will tell you where to find the geocache. Once you find it, have a pen handy so you can sign and date in the logbook and then you move on to the next one.

6. Check Out Your Local Food Trucks

There are always different types of foods to try at any food truck event. Maybe share a few different options so you won't fill up on food so fast.

7. Go To A Comedy Show

There are usually comedy shows that happen locally. It's a great way to just sit down, relax, and have a good laugh.

8. Brunch It Up

Who doesn't love brunch? It's an opportune time to enjoy breakfast/lunch food and maybe a mimosa.

9. Attend Trivia Night

There are many bars that will have weekly trivia nights, especially themed ones. Put your heads together. You can also get to know each other better by seeing what you both know.

10. Ice Skating

Strap on some skates and get on the ice. Doesn't matter if you look like a newborn baby deer just learning how to walk, you'll have fun in the process. Plus, you can hold each other's hand if you're scared you might fall.

11. Arcade Games and Photo Booths  


Go to an arcade, perhaps a Dave and Busters or a Boomers, and see who can win the most tickets. Whoever wins will get a cute prize to keep as a memory. If there's a photo booth, take some silly photos to commemorate your win/loss....

12. Attend A Sporting Event

You can find cheap tickets to a basketball or hockey game. Even if you're not super into sports, it's still fun to attend and eat some greasy food.

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