It's always hard seeing your ex with someone else. Even more so when you dated them for so long and they move on to someone else so quickly. Surely it would take someone a bit longer to move on and spend time focusing on themselves, right? Or atleast that's what I thought. Even though I have a billion questions for my ex that I would ask him face to face if I could, I don't think I would want any answers. I wouldn't want to see him again or waste another minute of my time listening to his manipulative responses. However, what I would rather do is sit down with his new girlfriend and get a better understanding of her side of the story and also tell her mine. The questions would go a little something like this:
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1. How are you?
2. How did you two meet?
3. When did you guys start talking?
4. What do you know about me?
5. What all did he tell you about me?
6. Did he tell you he was still talking to me while he was talking to you?
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7. Did you know he was telling me he loved me just a few weeks before I found out about you?
8. Did you guys become official before or after he deleted pictures of me off his social media?
9. Did you tell him to delete them?
10. Where did you go on the first date?
11. Was it as good as our first date?
12. Did you hit it off as well as we did?
13. Did it feel as natural as ours did?
14. Did he ask to kiss you on the first date like he did me?
15. Did you hang out every single day afterward like we did?
16. Does he write you poems like he did for me?
17. Did he buy you a big teddy bear like the one he bought me?
18. Was he upfront and asked you to be his girlfriend?
19. How did it he do it?
20. Was it as cute and romantic as how he asked me?
21. How long did it take to tell each other 'I love you'?
22. Who said it first?
23. Did you not feel uncomfortable that you started dating so shortly after we broke up?
24. How does it feel to be the rebound?
25. Or did he cheat on me with you?
26. Do his parents like you?
27. Do his friends like you?
28. Do you have as many inside jokes as we did?
29. Does he make you laugh so hard you feel like your lungs are going to explode?
30. Can you physically feel your heart overflow with love for him?
31. Do you dance together without any music playing?
32. Do you have silly nicknames for each other?
33. What's his nickname for you?
34. Is it the same as mine?
35. Have the romantic gestures stopped yet?
36. Have you started fighting yet?
37. Has he stopped writing you poems?
38. Has he called you while he's drunk and crying, begging you to go pick him up somewhere?
39. Have you seen the dark side of his drinking problem yet?
40. Has he promised you he's never going to leave?
41. Do you realize that he eventually will?
42. Are you prepared for him to leave you just like he left me?
43. Can you even comprehend how much that broke my heart?
44. Do you understand how much it killed me to see him with you?
45. Do you even have a heart to care?
Because it hurt, a lot. I would tell her to love him as much as she can and cherish the good times they have together, because they won't last forever. A part of me hopes that they will work out, because even though he broke my heart, I do want to see him happy. But then again, another part of me hopes that his new girlfriend will hurt him just as bad as he hurt me... just so he can understand how it feels to see someone he loves with someone else.
