2016 has been a year full of love, loss, hurt, and change. But most of all, 2016 has been a year of growth.

I have learned to love and appreciate life in a way I have never known before. I have learned that even "forever" has its limitations and nothing is meant to be permanent. Therefore, we should make a habit of cherishing each and every fragile and finite moment as it passes us. I have learned that even the worst of days will come to an end because everything is temporary. I've learned that things go wrong and bad things do happen. You can either let these things make you bitter or better; you either let it drag you down or help you grow. You either dwell on it or learn from it. I've learned there is strength in letting go of things that no longer bring us happiness. Sometimes holding on to things that are not ours to hold on to only brings us pain. Most of all, I have learned it is not vain or selfish to leave behind anything that is toxic to your well being.

It's important to put your well being before all else. It's important you learn about yourself. Discover the things that make your heart skip a beat, that bring a smile to your face, that make you laugh uncontrollably, and that make life worthwhile. Surround yourself with these things. Learn to be kind, gentle, forgiving and understanding in a world so often full of hate and negativity. Befriend strangers, go on adventures, take risks. You only have one life, so you might as well live it and experience the world while you are here. Take every chance you get, because some opportunities only present themselves once. In one day, one minute, or even one second, your entire life could change.

Make 2017 a year of love and happiness. Go experience everything the world has to offer. Do new things without fear of failure. Do not hold back. Challenge yourself and those around you. Be a better "you" each and every day. Make 2017 a year of pure positivity and living. You deserve it.