Growing up, I struggled a lot with how I viewed myself. Being the over-thinking, way too analytical person that I am, I found it difficult to see worth in myself. I went down a negative path riddled with self-loathing and people that were not a positive influence on me. Through God and some really great individuals, I eventually saw value in my life. If not for this intervening chapter in my early high school career, I have doubts about whether or not I would be alive today. With that being said, I fear that my little sister is dealing with issues that are similar to what I dealt with growing up (i.e. poor self esteem, bullying, etc.). No matter how many times she is told by myself and countless others, I wish that she could just grasp the following:
1. Your ideas, words, thoughts, stories, drawings, etc. matter. 
No matter what anyone may tell you, what you care about matters. Everyone else may not be as interested in World War II as you right now, and that is totally fine! You are brilliant, and I never want anyone to make you feel like less because of your love for learning.
2. You can go to the college of your dreams, and you can change the world.
My journey to be a lawyer and/or psychologist is still in process, but I can confidently say that your dreams of being a nuclear engineer or astronaut or whatever your heart desires are very attainable.
3. Being a little obsessed with that movie, series, or game is OK.
When I was your age, I was obnoxiously obsessed with "Harry Potter", "The Hunger Games" trilogy, "Percy Jackson", and...dare I say..."Twilight". Fangirls for life, am I right? Just don't let the obsession take over your life.
4. Almost everyone goes through an angst-filled, punk rock phase.
To be honest, I don't think I ever grew out of that phase. Rock out to Green Day, Panic!, Fall Out Boy, or whatever other music you encounter. Don't be afraid to branch out either. You and I both know that you can throw down some raps like a straight G, little sis.
5. Please embrace your sense of style.
I wish I had learned this much earlier. Wear what is comfortable and makes you happy. Wear your flannels, "Star Wars" shirts, and Nintendo shirts without shame. Fly your comfy nerd flag high!
6. Do not place your worth in other people. More specifically: do not place your worth in the opinion of boys.
Don't you dare allow a boy to treat you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable or like less of a person. You are a strong independent young woman, and you don't need a boy to remind you of that. You are a princess, okay? Actually, you are a queen. You are a daughter of Jesus Christ, the King of Kings. King of Kings...that means we are all kings and queens, so don't let anyone treat you like less.
7. Don't be afraid to talk to people.
I understand social anxiety and being shy on a deeply personal level, but you are fantastic! People love you and think you are super cool! Don't try to talk yourself out of believing this.
8. Realize that some people just aren't great friends.
I know that you have this habit of befriending the downtrodden, which I totally agree with; however, some people are just toxic. You don't need toxic people in your life. You need people that'll lift you up.
9. Your mom can be one of your best friends.
I know this can sound hard to believe, but as I got older I realized that she was always in my corner. Friends my come and go, but our mom is a supporter that will always be there. Please don't hesitate to come to her with anything.
10. Take time to decompress.
Watch your favorite movies and shows and just chill. It's okay to be alone, but don't turn into a hermit that never leaves her bedroom, okay?
11. Lastly, remember that people love you so much.
I love you, our family loves you, your friends love you, our cat Harley Q and dog Maxi love you, and mostly, God loves you. Never forget how loved you are. You are worth love, sister.
