10 Struggles Every Introverted Extrovert Understands

10 Struggles Every Introverted Extrovert Understands

You are not alone!

Trust me, we exist.

1. Nothing sounds better than staying in on a Friday night with a good movie and a huge pizza all to yourself, but you also have major FOMO whenever you see the endless Snapchats of people who are out at parties having fun.

2. If you see someone you know in public, you try to avoid them at all costs. It truly is the WORST thing to be stuck in an awkward conversation with someone you sort of, kind of know.

3. You tend to be one of the loud ones in your friend group, but when it comes to being around new people, you would rather just silently stick by your friends for the night.

4. You are awful at responding to texts because sometimes, you just really don't feel like talking to anyone. Next time someone yells at you for not answering them, don't apologize, you're just being you!

5.You love attention for like, five minutes. Anything more gives you the sweats... and a case of the mumbles.

6. If you like someone, you seriously like them. They should be considered lucky if you want to hang out with them more than three times because you often have a hard time connecting with new people

7. If you make an effort to hang out with someone that you normally don't hang out with, and get shut down, you will probably never make an effort with them again. Sorry, they lost their chance to spend time with a really cool person (you.)

8. You might spend the whole day looking forward to going out at night, but once its time to go out, you back out of plans and feel bad for letting your friends down.

9. You have fun for the first hour of a party, once an hour is up, you are ready to go home and be in your bed with your laptop and some mac n cheese.

10. At the end of the day, your dog is truly the only one you love and feel 100% comfortable with.

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I'm A Woman And You Can't Convince Me Breastfeeding In Public Is OK In 2019

Sorry, not sorry.


Lately, I have seen so many people going off on social media about how people shouldn't be upset with mothers breastfeeding in public. You know what? I disagree.

There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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5 Essential Oils For Beginners That Will Kickstart Your Obsession

Something worth learning about for your benefit.


Essential oils are oils that come from flowers and parts of plants. They can be used in different ways, such as aromatherapy and topical use, and have several different purposes. There are many commonly used essential oils and others that are not as popular. My top essential oils are the ones that I personally feel have the greatest impact.

Everyone is different, so I recommend trying to do some research to find out which ones are best for you.

1. Lavender

Lavender is commonly used for relaxation and to improve your quality of sleep. It even comes in sprays so that you can spray it on your bed before going to sleep.

2. Tea Tree

Tea tree oil has a very distinct smell and is a little hack for treating blemishes as well.

3. Sandalwood

Another very distinct smelling essential oil. Sandalwood can act as a natural anti-inflammatory and also helps with mental clarity and relaxation.

4. Eucalyptus

This commonly used essential oil can help clear congestion and colds. It is usually used in aromatherapy.

5. Rose

This essential oil is also commonly used in aromatherapy. It is said to help with anxiety, migraines and more.

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