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The Top 3 Worst Casual Dates You Should Stay FAR Away From

These are the ones that you should avoid by any means necessary.

Madeline Thomas

Dec 21, 2020

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The Top 3 Worst Casual Dates You Should Stay FAR Away From

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1. Blind dates

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Maybe it's just me, but I have NEVER been on a good blind date. As much as I appreciate my friends trying their best to set me up with a "nice guy", the dates always turn out to be more like "50 Shades of Awkward than Love at First Sight", or even Mutual Attraction at First Glance. If you've ever seen "Gilmore Girls", imagine I'm Lorelai and my date is Rune... the only way the night ends is with regret and not the good kind. To anyone thinking of going on a blind date in the near future- don't.

2. JUST a movie

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Movies seem to be synonymous with "Let's go home together" in the dating world, but nobody ever told me that fun little dating rule, so it took me a while to realize it. If you're reading this and your go-to date idea is a movie then for the love of God please be clear with your intentions. If you want to sleep with someone, just lead with that. If you're like me and are oblivious to that date tactic, do yourself a favor and just ask. I promise it won't be that weird- worst case scenario you don't go out and best-case scenario you get what you want out of the date.

3. The free date... for the other person

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Have you ever been on a date and felt like you were cheated out of everything? And no, I'm not just talking about the energy that you put into it, but your money and time. There is nothing worse than paying for the whole date, including gas money/an Uber, especially when the whole night was your date's idea. Paying for dinner, a movie/bowling/a show, and then the car that will get you the hell away from such a scam is the WORST. As much as I want people to see the best in each other, you should definitely keep an eye out for that "I left my wallet at home" red flag.

Sure, there are plenty of other bad date ideas, but as long as you can bypass these terrible ones then you're on the right track to a successful (or at least less awkward) first date.

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2. JUST a movie

3. The free date... for the other person

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No one best represents the struggle like our favorite 90s squad.

1. When course schedules are released and you have a conflict between two required classes.

2. When there is only one section of a popular course.

3. Receiving the 18,000 emails reminding you to register ASAP.

4. When you need to see an advisor, but they are too busy/unresponsive.

5. Trying not to dress like a bum for your appointments with your advisors/department heads.

6. When you have a perfectly planned out schedule, and one class ruins it.

7. Carefully moving things around to accommodate a different class/section.

8. Waking up at 6:00 a.m. for your enrollment time.

9. Concocting a new schedule at your enrollment time after your original plan gets changed.

10. Getting into a class and filling the last available seat.

11. When all of your classes finally go through.

12. Realizing that you forgot a class that was a pre-requisite for everything else.

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5. When you finish taking the test and you're pretty sure you failed...

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7. When you've been up for 12 hours straight writing a paper.

8. And then you manage to stay awake in class the next day.

9. When you have to butter up your professor for an extra credit opportunity.

10. When you're assigned a group project.

11. And your group-mates are trying to chat about life instead of the assignment.

12. When it's your last class of the day and you're about to go home.

13. But then you remember rent is due tonight and the anger comes back.

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