10 Words Of Advice From A Big Sister | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

10 Words Of Advice From A Big Sister

Things you've been told all your life but that we learned the hard way.

Natalee Hanway
Jul 18, 2016
Hastings College
898
10 Words Of Advice From A Big Sister
People

For the past 16 years, I've been a big sister, and recently I've been told that I give pretty damn good big sister advice. This revelation has given me a desire to help all those that were not as fortunate as my little sister to have as big sister as wonderful as I am. So, as followed, are ten words of wisdom to make your life easier.

1. Friends

Friendships shouldn't be forced or one-sided, if it feels that way, then you're probably not as good as companions as you think you are.

2. Dying Relationships

Everything runs it's course, sometimes all you do need to put a little TLC in to make it work. But if it's getting to the point where you are getting upset and saddened by the relationship (friend or romantic), then just end it.

3. Significant Others

Don't settle and when it's right, you'll know. Don't waste your time or anyone else's; be respectful and honest and always have your eyes open.

4. Parents

Sometimes arguing isn't worth it. They probably won't admit they're wrong and they have the power to make life miserable for you. Sometimes you have to suck it up, cupcake.

5. Clothes

Styles and fashions change, so don't worry about it too much; dress for you, not some Meryl Streep 'Devil wears Prada' fashion queen who'd mock you no matter what.

6. Cars

ALWAYS make sure you've got more than half a tank of gas in the winter and that if you can't change a tire, you know someone who can.

7. Jobs

Doesn't matter how much fun they are, they still suck. Put in your time and get the hell out. In high school, you're usually there just to make money, anyway.

8. Being Heartbroken

Everyone gets sad and feels down, but what defines what kind of person you are and who you can become is how you react when you're sad and upset. Take a deep breath, drink a cup of coffee, wash your hair, put on some mascara and kick ass.

9. Gossips

You are human and, by definition, flawed. Don't listen and don't worry. If they weren't talking about you they'd be talking about someone else. It's not as personal as you would think.

10. Life

When you're all alone in the nursing home at the age of 103, are you going to look back on your life and be proud of you decisions and the way you rebounded from your mistakes? If not then maybe you should rethink some things.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

AI music threatens creativity

The Soul of Sound: How AI Challenges Human Expression in Music

350431
Humans and robots face off in a rock band battle with guitars and drums, under dynamic lighting.
StableDiffusion

In an age where artificial intelligence can mimic the voice of Freddie Mercury or reimagine pop hits as synthwave ballads, a new frontier has emerged — one that blurs the line between innovation and erosion. While AI offers undeniable benefits in technical domains, its intrusion into creative arts, especially music, raises urgent questions. Not just about copyright, but about culture, education, and the very soul of artistic expression.


Keep Reading...Show less
ai generated music
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

Miami University
686171
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
music
Entertainment

Why Your Astrological Sign May Not Match Your Personality

We are all more than just one sign.

SUNY Plattsburgh
601400
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
astrology
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

UNC Greensboro
584638
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
spring
Relationships

The Importance Of Being A Good Person

An open letter to the good-hearted people.

Sacred Heart University
870905
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less
good person

Trending Topics

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments