Why You Should Respect Employees

Why You Should Respect Employees

Treat others with respect because everyone has human dignity.

I have so much respect for anyone who works in the food industry, retail, etc. It's not always easy being a sales associate or server.

Over this past summer, I had a job at a pizzeria. It was my first job. I had no previous work experience in the food industry, and although it was a small pizzeria, it still was not easy. Don't get me wrong, it was a good experience and an opportunity I'm grateful for. But oftentimes, I would get very stressed out. Working behind the counter, I had many responsibilities, such as taking orders — both over the phone and in-store—heating food in the oven, running orders to the kitchen to be prepared, packaging orders, cleaning off tables, wiping down the counters towards the end of the night, etc. Sure, oftentimes I would receive help with these tasks — especially when it got busy — but it could still be quite stressful and anxiety-provoking at times.

Although it wasn't always easy, when I worked at the pizzeria I always tried my best to be kind and to have a good attitude with all of the customers. At my job, I was very blessed and fortunate for the most part. A lot of the customers were very kind, patient, and some of them were very generous with their tips. Tips should never really be expected, but they were always appreciated. Occasionally, I would get some customers that had more complicated orders and some customers that weren't the friendliest people. As far as the complicated orders go, it might have made my job a little harder, but people deserve to have the food the way they want it, especially when they are paying for it. Also, although people didn't always have the most patience or the best attitude, I have no idea what's going on in their personal life. Maybe they were having a bad day or just dealing with a lot. I'm not saying it's right to take it out on me or any other employees — because it's not — but I understand it happens sometimes no matter what the reason is. Although it can be hard, people have to try not take it personally or have it affect them.

I tried to do my job well at the pizzeria because, similarly, I love to go to a store, a restaurant, etc. and have great customer service. It makes the whole experience of shopping, going out to eat, etc. so much better when the employees are kind and do their job well.

Recently, I went out to eat at an IHOP and had an extremely lovely server. The place was very busy. He had numerous tables to wait on — including ours — and somehow he was able to take great care of every single one. He made sure that the food was brought to the tables when it was ready and he also made sure to check on everyone to see if they were all enjoying their food and if he could get them anything else. He also managed to do all of this with a smile on his face and a great attitude. He had a great personality that just exuded genuine warmth, positivity, and pure kindness. He even made people smile and laugh — including me. There was no denying that there was truly something special and amazing about this young man — besides his exceptional skills as a waiter.

I marveled at how well he did his job. I could barely take the stress of the pizzeria let alone waiting on several tables in a crowded restaurant with such a positive attitude like he did. I give him a lot of respect and credit. It's not an easy job. You always have to be alert and you stand on your feet for hours on end.

Not every employee everywhere is like this young man — and that's OK. It's nice when people go above and beyond what their job requires, but it's not always necessary. As long as people are kind, helpful, and get their job done efficiently, they are already going above and beyond. Sometimes you might get an employee who might be quiet and not very cheerful. They might even be a little cranky. As long as they don't treat anyone horrendously, you shouldn't take it personally or fight with them.

Some people just have a bad day. You never know what's going on in someone else's life. Most people who work in retail stores, restaurants, etc. don't plan on having that job forever. However, for some people, that is their career and ultimate source of livelihood and there is nothing wrong with that. Some people really don't like their jobs, but they could use the cash and need the money to live. Sure, just because someone might not like their job doesn't give them an excuse to treat people poorly. But if someone isn't exactly extremely cheerful, don't take it the wrong way. You don't know how many hours they've been on their feet or what they are going through personally. They are working. They are trying their best. And they are trying to make a living. So please treat all employees—no matter what their job position, age, sex, sexual orientation, race, religion, etc. is with respect.

The bottom line is that respect is a two-way street. Employees should respect their customers and their customers should respect the employees. Although it's not always easy, if someone isn't exactly being nice or friendly, it's not going to make the situation better if you disrespect that person. It can be quite challenging to be the bigger person, but sometimes we need to let these things go, pray for them, and realize that they might be dealing with difficult situations in their personal lives that are affecting their mood and how they act. Therefore, you should always try to treat others with respect and kindness.

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To The Boy Who Will Love Me Next

If you can't understand these few things, leave before things get too involved

To the boy that will love me next, I need you to know and understand things about me and my past. The things I have been though not only have shaped the person I’ve become, but also sometimes controls my life. In the past I’ve been used, abused, and taken for granted, and I want something real this time. The guys before you were just boys; they didn’t know how to treat me until it was too late. They didn’t understand how to love me, until I broke my own heart. Before you truly decide to love me I want you to understand these things.

When I tell you something, please listen.

I’m my own person, I want to be loved a certain way. If I ask you to come over and watch movies with me please do it, if I ask for you to leave me alone for a few hours because it’s a girl’s night please do it. I don’t just say things to hear my own voice, I say things to you because it’s important to my life and the way I want to be loved. I’m not a needy person when it comes to being loved and cared for, but I do ask for you to do the small things that I am say.

Forgive my past.

My past is not a pretty brick road, it is a highway that has a bunch of potholes and cracks in it. I have a lot of baggage, and most of it you won’t understand. But don’t let my past decided whether you want to love me or not. My past has helped form who I am today, but it does not define who I am. My past experiences might try and make an appearance every once in a while, but I will not go back to that person I once was, I will not return to all that hurt I once went though. When I say those things, I’m telling the complete and honest truth. I relive my past every day, somethings haunt me and somethings are good reminds. But for you to love me, I need you to accept my past, present and future.

I’m just another bro to the other guys.

I have always hung out with boys, I don’t fit in with the girl groups. I have 10 close girlfriends, but the majority of my friends are guy, but don’t let this scare you. If I wanted to be with one of my guy friends I would already be with him, and if you haven’t noticed I don’t want them because I’m with you. I will not lose my friendships with all my guy friends to be able to stay with you. I will not cut off ties because you don’t like my guy friends. I have lost too many buddies because of my ex-boyfriends and I promised myself I wouldn’t do that again. If you don’t like how many guy friends I have you can leave now. Don’t bother trying to date me if you can accept the fact I’m just another bro.

I might be a badass, but I actually have a big heart.

To a lot of people I come off to be a very crazy and wild girl. I will agree I can be crazy and wild, but I’m more than that. I’m independent, caring, responsible, understanding, forgiving, and so such more type of woman. Many people think that I’m a badass because I don’t take any negatively from anyone. Just like we learned when we were younger, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” Most people can’t do that in today’s world, so I stick up for myself and my friends. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me, or their option on how I live my life. The only thing I care about is being able to make myself happy. Even though I’m an independent woman, understand that I do have a big heart. Honesty when I truly care for someone I will do just about anything they ask, but don’t take advantage of this. Once you take advantage of this part of me, all respect will be lost for you.

I’m hard to love.

Sometimes I want to be cuddle and get attention, and sometimes I don’t want you to talk to me for a couple hours. Sometimes I want you to take me out for a nice meal, but sometimes I want a home cooked meal. Every day is different for me, sometimes I change my mind every hour. My mood swings are terrible on certain days, and on those days you should probably just ignore me. I’m not easy to love, so you’ll either be willing to find a way to love me, or you’ll walk out like so many others have.

I’m scared.

I’m scared to love someone again. I’ve been hurt, heartbroken, and beat to the ground in my past relationships. I want to believe you are different, I want to hope things will truly work out, but every relationship has always ended up the same way. I’m scared to trust someone, put my whole heart into them, just to be left and heartbroken again. I sick and tired of putting my whole body and soul into someone for them to just leave when it is convenient for them. If you want to love me, understand it won’t be easy for me to love you back.

When “I’m done.”

When I say “I’m done” I honestly don’t mean that I’m done. When I say that it means I need and want you to fight for me, show me why you want to be with me. I need you to prove that I’m worth it and there’s no one else but me. If I was truly done, I would just walk away, and not come back. So if I ever tell you, “I’m done,” tell me all the reasons why I’m truly not done.

For the boy who will love me next, the work is cut out for you, you just have to be willing to do it. I’m not like other girls, I am my own person, and I will need to be treated as such. For the boy that will love me next, don’t bother with me unless you really want to be with me. I don’t have time to waste on you if you aren’t going to try and make something out of us. To the boy who will love me next, the last thing I would like to say is good luck, I have faith in you.

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High School Seniors Should Be Excited For College, Not Scared

Even though it seems stressful and it is a big new place, it will be some of the best memories you will have for life.


Going into the summer after my high school graduation, all I could think about was college, and how I was going to prepare to go to a new school and move away from home. Just know, it is not as stressful as you prepare yourself for it to be. You don't need to worry about not having any friends or not knowing how to get to all the different buildings because you have to remember everyone else on campus has been in the exact same position you are in, and there are tons of people on campus to help you.

One of the things I was most worried about was classes and how to know which classes to take. My advice is to go to counseling and plan out your classes before you register. Planning out classes will drastically help you stay on track and the counselors will help you make a balanced schedule that you can actually handle.

Another piece of advice would be to not bring as much stuff for your dorm as you think you will need. By all means, bring the essential things that you will need, but remember a dorm room is very small and you share it with another person. You won't have a ton of space for extra stuff and you want to have space to move around and actually live in your dorm.

Finally, if you are concerned about meeting people and making friends, just try and be as outgoing and open as possible. Everyone else in the dorms is just as nervous as you are too meet people, it really helps to try to branch out. Joining clubs or greek life also helps you meet people around campus with common interests as you.

College is not something to be scared of. Even though it seems stressful and it is a big new place, it will be some of the best memories you will have for life.


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