Guys, this is a serious question. Now, you know us girls talk. We all share everything with each other and when I say everything I mean, EVERYTHING.

So it should come as no surprise to you that we talk about the boys that we go on dates with or that are interested in us.

Now, among our “community,” if you will, we have found that men are very interested in the beginning, texting all the time, you make plans a few times and then BAM you drop off the face of the earth. We then wonder what happened. Was that the extent of your effort?

We then start reaching out and while we get responses we are often turned down for a variety of reasons. We keep reaching out because you seem like you still want to hang out but don’t make time to hang out with us... what are we to do?

We try so hard to gain the attention of the people we are interested in only to get nothing back. We ask to make plans only to be shot down again and again. We were not the ones who initiated conversation, and we do get that it is a two way street, but oh man, it is hard to figure out what the next move should be on our side if we are having a hard time reading the situation.

Dating, if you can even call it that, is so difficult and confusing nowadays. Who knows what is going on and honestly, until there's a ring on the horizon we will all probably be confused till that point.

Can we all just make a pact to be a little more old school, talk a little more, and put the energy in where it needs to be? That'd be cool.