Why I Love My Best Friends | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Why I Love My Best Friends

the importance of having supportive friends

20
Why I Love My Best Friends

I met my best friend Molly in accounting class my junior year of college. I knew of her before then, but it wasn’t until we had accounting that we really began to talk and quickly became best friends. I even traveled across the country from Massachusetts to Hawaii to spend my Spring Break with her while she was on National Student Exchange in Hilo. As crazy as that notion sounds I know that she would do the same for me. Whether it be supporting my decision to not pursue a career in accounting to consoling me when I’m upset because I failed a test she is always there for me no matter what. My best friend supports every decision I make and is never selfish in her support. After being away in Hawaii for four months I then chose to do the Disney College Program and move to Florida for seven months. Even though this meant being away from each other for over a year she still supported my decision and even encouraged me to go and live my dream because it is a once in a lifetime opportunity. That is what true friends do though; they encourage one another to go after their dreams no matter what it takes. Even though we are two thousand miles apart we still talk every day and even though I miss her I know that no matter what we will always be friends. Having a friend who supports your decisions is so important because without a support system sometimes you can never succeed. I have done things in life I never thought I would do with the help of Molly. She has supported me through every decision I have made since we met whether it was a good one or bad. Of course she had an opinion on everything but ultimately she let me choose. Even when it comes to stupid decisions regarding boys she still supports me. This is what true friendship is and I cannot thank her enough for everything she has done for me. I love all of our stupid talks about the future and living next door to each other near Boston. I would never make it through seven months in Florida without the daily texts from her. Molly may never know how much her friendship means to me but that’s alright because all that matters is that I am there for her in return and that we continue to support each other in all of our endeavors.

I also have a best friend since high school by the name of Bobby who has helped me through some of the biggest and hardest moments of my life. My mom knew Bobby before I did and she told him we would be great friends, but she was wrong because he is more than just a friend. When I broke up with my boyfriend of over three years he was the first person I called and the one there for me. No matter what time of day or how stupid the problem is he is always there for me no matter what. Even if he is busy and can’t be there for me the moment I need him he will always try to help me as soon as he can. There have been times where I have come to him on a school night wicked upset and he has put projects aside to take the time to make me feel better. He is my best friend and my rock because no matter how many stupid things I do he is always there to pick me up when I fall and congratulate me when I succeed. He and I can spend the day laughing together without a care in the world. He is the type of friend where we could not talk for months and then hang out and it’s like we had just talked yesterday. He is my best friend and I know he will remain my best friend for the rest of my life. He has no idea how much I love him and how much I truly appreciate every little thing he has done for me over the years. Even when I first started writing these articles he was so excited for me and said that he wanted to read everything I wrote. We may be many states away from each other right now but I know that no matter what he is just a phone call away. There is a stigma that guys and girls can’t be just friends but Bobby and I prove that this is wrong. He is my best friend and I love him for supporting all that I do.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

654447
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

550396
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments