Hi, I'm Lily and I am adopted. When I was little, my parents revealed to me that I was adopted. At the time, I did not know what that meant, but after some explanation, I was well aware I was birthed by someone I did not know. For some time, I wondered, "Why did they give me away?" and, "Why did they not want me?" When I asked my parents that, I remember my dad becoming teary eyed and saying," You weren't given away because they did not want you; they put you up for adoption because you are so loved and they wanted the best for you." I could be mad at my birth parents for giving me away, but if they hadn't, I know I would not be the person I am today. I've always wondered who my biological parents were and what they looked like, but meeting them hasn't really crossed my mind. I always found it funny when someone found out I was adopted, there reactions included, "What?! No way!" or, "Wait seriously, or you're just messing with us." Some people jumped to the conclusion that I did not want to talk about it, but now, being 19 years old, I love talking about it.

Being adopted is a gift that would never trade back. I am beyond grateful for my family now and all the love and support they have given me. I was adopted as an infant so I don't remember my birth mom, but with all adopted children, they wonder who she was. I realize not all children are as lucky as myself. I have heard stories of adoptee parents who have hid that valuable piece of information from their adopted child. Why on earth would you hide something so special? Being adopted in no way is a bad thing. Its a special moment in life that not a lot of people get to experience.

My parents always wanted to have kids, and like many other families, adoption did not come to mind at first. They tried to have kids of their own but after sometime they weren't given that opportunity. I am forever grateful to know my biological mother knew I could live a better life off with another family and from that day I've grown into the best person I can be. Adoption creates beautiful families. The bond through adoption creates the best love out there in my opinion. Since Oct.r 6, 1996, I've grown alongside my parents and if they are reading this now, I just want to say thank you. I could not be the person I am today without you. Love you with all my heart.