As undergraduate students, we've all been through the hard process of adjusting to college life. For me, I found the adjustment fun and exciting. I started my college career at a university of over 13,000 students that were big into sports and Greek life. Not to mention it was only a 10 minute drive to the beach. I made friends instantly; between my roommates, sorority sisters, and students in my major, I thought I had found the perfect place to spend my four years. But there was always a part of me that wondered if all of it was really enough...
My thoughts on transferring began at the beginning of second semester. I started to realize that I wanted more out of my major, so I applied to a school with an excellent program, but didn't tell my friends so they wouldn't get upset. I fought back and forth with myself for several months on whether or not this was the right decision for me. But after attending a "shadow day" at the potential new school, I fell in LOVE with everything about it.
After months of consideration, I decided to transfer for the upcoming fall semester. I felt relieved and excited about what my future could bring. I told my friends at school, some of whom were thrilled for me and others who stopped talking to me all together.
Starting over at a new school was terrifying. I was so nervous the first day that I started to think I had made the wrong decision. But, thankfully, I instantly clicked with everyone in my department. Students went out of their way to introduce themselves to make me feel welcome. I couldn't believe how welcoming and friendly these students were. I've made more friendships than I could have imagined.
When I think back on my decision, I can't help but be proud of myself. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason, even the choices we make. I can strongly say that I know I'm where I'm meant to be.
If you're considering transferring, here are some questions to ask yourself before making your final decision:
Are there better programs at other schools for my major?
Am I willing to start over and make new friends?
What will I miss out on if I transfer?
Can I make the switch financially?
No matter what decision you make, you will always find the good and the bad wherever you end up. You just have to be willing to take the risk to find the right school for you.
