When making a college decision, distance from home is a factor that a lot of people take into consideration. Usually, seniors in high school are a little nervous about going off to college, so they typically don't want to choose a school that's too far from home. But, I would argue that being a sizeable distance from home only makes your college experience that much better. Here are a few reasons I believe this:
1. You learn a new meaning to the word independence.
You aren’t living with your parents anymore, and you might not even be in the same state as them. Going to the doctor, talking to your professors, taking trips to the store…these are all things you have to do on your own.
2. You get a chance to start over.
For some people, high school is a really rough time. But, college gives you a chance to start over. There are so many new people to meet, clubs and organizations to get involved in, and classes to take. There’s a little something for everyone, and you’ll find your niche.
3. You make friends from all over the country (and world).
This sucks like no other during school breaks, but it’s such a cool experience to meet people from all over the country. Everyone has fun stories to tell and a unique perspective from their upbringing. Plus, you always have someone to stay with if you ever go through with that cross-country road trip.
4. Your friends become your family.
When you only see your family once every three months, you have no choice but to form crazy-close relationships with your friends. This is when you may start asking yourself, "Are we too close?" Either way, they’re always there for you, whether it be 2 p.m. or 2 a.m. You’re each other’s support systems.
5. You find out who your real friends from home are.
Living hundreds of miles away is the ultimate test of true friendship. Who keeps in touch? Who goes to visit you? Who keeps you updated on the gossip from home? Those are your true friends.
6. You get to experience new things.
You’re going to experience new things no matter where you go to college, but this is amplified if you’re far from home. You have to set up new roots, and, as I mentioned before, gain independence.
7. You get to fly a lot.
I love flying. I love airports. I love people watching. When your college is hours and hours away from home, flying is sometimes an easier alternative to being in the car for 8+ long hours.
8. You get to receive letters/care packages from home.
I would argue that there is no better feeling than receiving a slip in your mailbox, saying you have a package. Plus, it's just so comforting seeing a close friend or family member's handwriting and address. Just a little familiarity can do wonders for your happiness.
9. You find yourself.
You can no longer rely on the safety net of your hometown, so you’re forced to make new friends, choose a major, get involved and try new things. All of these decisions shape you as a person.
