Why Disabled People Are Everything But Mean

Why Disabled People Are Everything But Mean

Kindness should be shown to all people, including those with disabilities. Unfortunately that isn't how many people see it.

There are many types of disorders and disabilities that we are aware of today and more and more are being discovered. Typically, it is a mutated gene in people unless something has happened to them during their life. People who are disabled or have a disability are still people, just like us, so why do we treat them differently? I realize that the title says they are everything but mean, in some cases, that isn’t true. That may very well be because of how they are treated or just part of the disability that they have. Still, there is no reason to treat them any differently than any other person that we talk to because they are different in various ways.

Have you ever noticed that some of the sweetest kids you meet are the ones that have disabilities? I’ve noticed many times, honestly. I believe they are kind and caring because they know how it feels to be looked at differently and made fun of since they are different. They only want to be treated the way that you would treat one of your friends. That is all they ask. A lot of people say that it is difficult to do that. I understand that it would be if you aren’t used to it. But what are other reasons to say that it is difficult to show them a little kindness back?

It is not only children that deserve to be treated like normal people, but anyone who has a disability does. Some people may be mean because they were treated differently by their “friends”, maybe some family members, and the general public. None of them ask for much, but to be accepted into a society where they are appreciated would be a good start. Or even someone that they can actually be friends with; someone who is not going to make fun of them.

I’m not saying that all people treat them badly or with disrespect. Although, I have seen plenty of people treat them much differently than they should be. Personally, I find it truly disrespectful when they say “hi” to someone and a person doesn’t even acknowledge them. Even though they clearly heard them. I can honestly say that immediately “makes my blood boil.” I acknowledge them and if they say “hi” to me, I’m going to say it back. I refuse to treat them any differently than I would any other person. It makes their day when someone tells them “hi.” Which is great! At the same time, it is very disappointing that we live in a world where people look down on those who have a disability or disorder. That is truly saddening.

Be kind to others. All it takes to make someone’s day is to say “Hi.” Even coming from a complete stranger, that could make someone’s day so much better. Let’s become a society that has some decency towards everyone.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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