Last week, the newest members of our chapter (myself included), attended a meeting to prepare us for Fall Recruitment. One of the activities we participated was writing an elevator speech- a 20-20 second long statement about why we chose Kappa Delta in the first place, and why we chose to stay. WE were all asked to take the time to share our story on our social media. Although a bit longer than 20-30 seconds, this is my elevator speech.

I often get asked by family and friends why I joined a sorority. I wasn’t a party girl in high school, so why did I want to spend all my time partying in college? I was outgoing, so why did I feel the need to buy my friends?

All my friends went Greek when they went to college. They however, went to school a week early to participate in the long days and numerous events of formal recruitment. At my university, Greek life wasn’t as large, so we held formal recruitment a few weeks into the semester, with fewer events held in the evening after classes. This gave me a lot of time to think about whether or not I wanted to participate and eventually join a sorority. I owe a lot to my cousin who did all the convincing, but eventually, I was persuaded and I registered for recruitment.

The week went well, and I met tons of amazing women at each of the houses. I learned more about their philanthropy, social events, and academics. While I was leaning toward one chapter in particular, Preference night really sealed the deal.

When I walked into Kappa Delta, I found a place had been set at the table with my name on it. One sister, who barely knew who I was, made a spot for me. This resounded with me SO much. These incredible women who knew next to nothing about my likes, my dislikes, my family, or my past, wanted me there. They took the time to consider me as a sister, as someone they would love for the rest of their lifetimes. I was met at my spot by one of the girls I had met earlier in the week. Tears were shed and laughs shared and I knew I was home.

Fast-forward to the present. Why did I stay?

I got a Big that loves me for everything I am. I got best friends that go to dinner with me, dance with me, and complain about boys with me. I got a house that has become my home.

I stayed because I had found the college friends that would be there at my graduation, my wedding, and every big event after that. Kappa Delta brought people into my life that I never would have met had I not accepted my bid. Through KD, I have gained the best sisters I could have ever asked for.

Kappa Delta has given me opportunities to serve my community, get involved with other organizations on campus, and be a leader. I have recognized my weaknesses and my strengths since joining this sisterhood. My sisters have uplifted me in the worst moments, and shared my happiness in the best.

Because of Kappa Delta, I have a place to go when I’m homesick. Because of Kappa Delta, I have learned to love others better. Because of Kappa Delta, I have learned to love myself.

Many people are and will always be skeptical of Greek life. A sorority is more than just parties and philanthropy. A sorority is a group of women who strive each day to be a little bit better than they were yesterday. I am forever grateful for my decision to go through recruitment, and join KD. I’m glad that the women of Kappa Delta Beta Delta found me a good fit for their chapter. I’m grateful for everything they have taught me, and continue to teach me each day.

But most of all, I’m grateful for the women who have made me stay. You have loved, encouraged, inspired and cared for me more than I could have ever thought possible.

Thank you, Kappa Delta, for giving me friends that have turned into family.