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Jan 07, 2018

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Who Else Is EXCITED To Be Walking Into 2018 Single?

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As the new year rings in, we all see Facebook and Instagram posts about going into 2018 single - but is it really a bad thing?

I’ve been single for quite some time now and I haven’t been this happy in a while. When you are in a relationship it’s fun but you are constantly concerned about the other person’s needs and wants to the point where you sometimes forget about your own.

Being single is the best thing that has ever happened and here are a few reasons why:

You discover more about yourself

Sometimes in relationships, you are not able to discover a whole lot about yourself. When my last relationship ended, I needed some way to cope. Some of the things that were helping me cope with the breakups ended up opening doors for me that I never knew could open. For instance, writing was one the biggest things that helped me cope. Now writing isn’t just my therapy, but it’s a hobby of mine and I love it!

You will love yourself like never before!

One thing that I really got into after my breakup was starting to love my body. I really got into exercising and eating right and overall just taking care of myself mentally, physically, and emotionally. I started to discover my own makeup and fashion sense which was really exciting for me because I never got to discover any of that when I was in a relationship with someone.

You gain more independence

Being independent is my favorite part of being single! Being able to take on an adult life of your own without any other worries but yourself is an amazing feeling! I love the feeling of being independent and taking care of myself. I know on a certain level it does sound selfish, but I promise it’s okay to be selfish sometimes. You need to make sure that you are putting your happiness first and allowing yourself the self love that you deserve.

Yes I am walking into 2018 single and that’s ok because I’m too busy loving myself for now. Sorry not sorry.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

Obviously the best superpower.

There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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