When You Give A Mom A Stubborn Daughter
Start writing a post
Relationships

When You Give A Mom A Stubborn Daughter

An open letter from a head-strong child.

67
When You Give A Mom A Stubborn Daughter
PublicDomainPictures

Dear Mom,

Sometimes I don’t feel like I say it enough, so first off, I do love you. I know it may, at times, not seem like it, but this is because with my differing personality I tend to express affection a lot differently. Some may call my version of love “tough love,” but trust me, I do care very much about you.

I am thankful. You have given me a home, life, love, support and so much more over the course of my entire time here on earth. I know you don’t expect a “thank you” with every little gesture, but for all that you do, I feel that I constantly fall short of saying it enough.

As you know, I’m very thick headed, and I’m eternally grateful you put up with it. There are many times where we seem to disagree, but that's only because I see things from other perspectives that you are seeing from a completely different perspective.

Honestly, I have no idea how you tolerate me, but I hope to inherit the acceptance and patience that you have for me when I become a parent someday; you may have to teach me your ways.

You raised me strong, gave me the ability to conquer anything and the acceptance for the skin I’m in. Without you, I have no idea what I would do when faced with times of turmoil. From you, I have gained faith and an open mind; which I must say comes in handy.

You taught me how to find understanding and have given me the ability to tolerate others, even though sometimes we just want to punch them in the face. You also gave me the gift of empathy and discernment so that I am able to help others when truly in need. Without you, I most likely would lack these important qualities that make me who I am today.

Mom, I know through the years, I have given you a run for your money, but I don’t think either of us would want it any other way.

To the moon and back,

Your Headstrong Daughter
Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

95165
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments