So we are all adults here, there were times where people would be with someone who did not want to be with them. It's a pretty sad feeling because sometimes it happens when they're in a relationship and sometimes it happens when they're married. It's sad to know that people lose interest in people after a certain period of time or when someone new comes along.

There is a video circulating twitter right now where it involves this couple sitting down with each other after they broke up. The reason why they are sitting with each other is because the girl wanted closure, she wanted to know why the guy cheated on her while they were in a relationship. The guy could not give her a straight answer, the guy couldn't even remember how many times he cheated on her, and while the girl is crying, he's just sitting there. This sent a spark in the "couples community" or the people who have been in a relationship and they know how the girl feels. Some were mad at the guy because he was so nonchalant and some were mad at the girl because she stayed in the relationship even though she knew he was cheating.

But that was just a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship, it's much worse when people are married. One has to think about all the time that the couple spent before they got married, all the time they spent planning the wedding, and all the time spent as newlyweds. Cheating spouses suffer so much more consequences than those in a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship. If they are in a religious marriage then they are breaking one of the ten commandments, but it really doesn't matter if they are in that type of marriage because they took vows when they said, "I do". Then, if there are kids in the house they have to think about them because kids are the most important aspect of a marriage, in my opinion. Finally, if they truly want a divorce they have to pay divorce lawyers to figure out who gets what.

I'm saying all of this because just one day after Valentine's Day, I'm hearing about cheating in a relationship and I just want to address it. Most people know it's wrong to cheat but most people only do it because they are not happy in their relationship. If they are not happy, they can always leave and start anew with someone else; it's pretty simple, in my opinion. Yes, the other person's feelings will be hurt but it's good that they let the other one know rather than continuing to cheat.

But I do hope you guys had an amazing Valentine's Day and it was filled with love, peace, and happiness.