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As a girl in her 20s, nothing is worse then trying to find someone to date. I swear, all boys are different and it is near impossible to find someone you are compatible with. Oh, you think you found the one -- guess again! You figure out they have one of the most unattractive traits about them -- you know those traits you and your girls make fun of guys for. Guys listen up -- below are five things that turns a girl away!

Arrogance

This does not mean confident; confidence is sexy. It's the arrogance that needs to stop, I do not care how good you look in that shirt, how you think all the girls want you or how cool you are in front of your friends. Relax and focus on something other then yourself and talk about the future, your hopes and your dreams. No girl wants to date someone full of themselves, it gets old very fast.

Ex talk

We honestly do not care if you are friends with your ex, that's fine. Just please do not talk about her or bring your issues you had with her into our relationship. Definitely do not let us catch you talking to her without us knowing.

Irresponsibility

Nothing is worse then feeling like a mother while dating someone. Please remember the time we need to be somewhere, what I said or what you were suppose to do that day. When you are irresponsible it makes girls crazy, not to mention it's just plain annoying.


No sense of humor

Please laugh and have fun. Girls want you to crack jokes and be silly. No one wants to be around someone boring and who cannot take a joke. Plus, dating will get old if you cannot have some fun!

Commitment Issues

Girls are all for taking things slow, but do not lead us on. Nothing is worse than being into someone and then you find out they are "scared of commitment." Tell us upfront or learn to work through those feelings you have on commitment.


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