I am sure that at some point in your life, you have heard the saying, "right person, wrong time." In some cases I truly do believe this, however in some cases I think that "right person, wrong time" can change into right person, newly right time. There are so many different types of people, different personalities, different relationships and so on. We all interact in different ways around certain people. The truth of the matter is, if this is the "right person" then it would not be the wrong time. The reality is that sometimes our hearts and our brains battle with each other for right and wrong, and so on. Our hearts occasionally pull and tug, not being able to let go of certain people in our lives. One thing is that if you're not yet fully capable of opening your heart and allowing yourself to be in a loving, completely committed relationship, then one way or the other, your relationship is bound to be doomed and not work.
My previous article talks about the generation that we live in, and the lack of love.
The truth here is that we try to wrap our heads around unrealistic situations; things that may never actually end up going anywhere. You hear stories about people who fall in love with someone and that they have to leave one week later, or the stories where men meet a girl, and later end up finding out that she is married and so on. The truth is that neither of those would work out really.
Part of the underlying issues here is that some of us just are not wiling to give part of ourselves to other people. If you really feel that this is the "right person" then things will work out, the situations will be right, it'll feel right, they won't be on their way out the door just days later.
Their love will overwhelm you, take over you, and give you their all. Until you are truly ready to open yourself to another person and give them all of your love, you have to be ready to commit to this person, be ready to stop using excuses, and stop doing the things that you know could harm your relationship. Give them your all, take a stand, and put your best foot forward.
I am currently in the best relationship that I have ever been in, and for the longest time, I would have never assumed that we would be where we are today. Yet here we are at our absolute best, completely and entirely happy and in love. It was not a case of wrong time, right person. It was only a case of not being mature enough and not being ready yet. Can I be sure that this guy is "Mr. Right?" Probably not, maybe, who knows? But I know that once you stop being selfish, and give into the love, you can, and will do everything.
