College is expensive. Between tuition, books, meal plans, room and board, and other expenses it can all add up fast. To save money some students commute to school. I am one of those students. I always get asked questions about it, so I thought I would answer a few of them.
1. How long is your drive?
Fortunately my drive is about 30 minutes each way. I am lucky enough to live near a school with such an excellent program for what I want to study. Some people think that it is a long time to spend in the car. Personally, I don't really mind the drive, I actually find it relaxing (most of the time). Traffic, weather, and poor road conditions can make the drive a little longer, but that is the price I am willing to pay.
2. Do you have friends?
Yes I have friends. This question always makes me laugh a little. Just because I am not on campus all day everyday does not mean I don't interact with other people. Most of my friends are from my orientation group, major, and activities that I am involved with on campus. I may not be as close with them as a resident student would be, but I'm ok with it for right now.
3. Do you like it?
Yes. Right now it is the best thing for me. I am happy with my decision. I choose to commute because of some struggles with anxiety, which I am slowly working through and because it can save me and my family some money in the long run. I am extremely close with my family and being able to have their support means everything.
Commuting is a personal thing. Some people like it and others don't. It isn't always easy. Things like bad weather and road work can make it a bit of a pain, but I would not have it any other way. Late night meetings and classes can sometimes make the days long but being able to come home to my own bed feels so good. I'm able to eat good food and shower without flip flops on. I get to see my family and my dog everyday.
It has taught me time management skills that will help me later on in the workplace. Gaps in my schedule provide me with time during the day to get my homework done and to meet with professors. It helps keep me focused and on track with assignments and tasks.
There are times that I wish I did live on campus. Partially because I just want to feel "normal" and like everyone else. There is a chance that I might live on campus one year, but for right now I'm doing what I need to do for me and my education.