An Open Letter To The Girl Who Tries Too Hard
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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Tries Too Hard

"You never fail until you stop trying." - Albert Einstein

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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Tries Too Hard

You’re trying, I know you are. But it seems like nothing’s going right, no matter how much you try.

You give it your all, you put your heart, soul, and spirit into your actions and your work, but the universe doesn’t seem to reciprocate with you. You don’t understand, and you’re baffled.

You only mean the best 100% of the time. And you realize, it’s because you care.

It’s not your fault, you have a big, warm, red heart on your sleeve. You care about the people you love, about the people who love you; and you would want nothing more but to make them happy.

Humans make mistakes—it’s part of human error. It’s a normal, everyday thing. I would be shocked if I ever found a perfect person roaming this earth without human error of some sort—in which, there is none a perfect person who doesn’t mess up sometimes.

People mess up, friends mess up, family messes up, and it’s all apart of life. Sometimes, you’ll mess up and you won't know how to fix it or where to turn— but keep trying.

The universe knows you’re trying, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Don’t beat yourself up, because life is full of lessons in which you will learn along the way.

Don’t ever let the world turn your heart bitter and cold; don’t ever stop caring—that’s not who you are.

Always continue to love wholly, truly, and honestly and the universe will love you right back.

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