To My Friends, As We Graduate College

To My Friends, As We Graduate

Here are all of the things I could not say the week of graduation and in our last classes.


As I write this, I am three days away from graduating from college. Three days away from the thing I have worked so hard for over the course of four years. Three days away from not seeing some of my favorite people nearly every day. Three days away of no longer being able to walk down or across the hall when I am bored to hang out with someone. Three days away.

There are so many things I have wanted to say and so many thank yous that I am not going to have time to give out personally.

To my social work pals, this morning, in class, as we reflected not just over the past year, but the past years that have solidified us as the cohort we are today, I leave feeling overwhelmingly blessed by the love, knowledge, wisdom, and guidance that has poured out over these past few years.

I have been blessed to learn from you all. You guys have made me a better person, and in turn, I will be a better social worker because of the time each and every one of you took to pour into my life

To my fabulous floor-mates, past, and present, I have been honored to live on S3N for all four years of my college career. The friendships that have come out of living where I live is countless. To my OG S3N girls; the girls who came onto the floor the same time as I did, your friendships over the past four years have been wonderful.

The late night talks, the tea times, and the homework parties have been some of my most favorite memories while living on the floor. We came in together and we are leaving together. I am forever thankful for all of the friendships that came out of living on S3N.

To the professors who have educated me, thank you. Thank you for pouring out your wisdom, thank you for offering guidance, for being there when life was a little rougher and needed to talk, thank you for praying for me, and all of your students. I would not be the social worker I am today without the guidance and the love that came from each professor I have had on this journey.

I guess to sum all of this up, thank you. Thank you to each and every one of you that has ever poured into me loved me, and/or prayed for or with me. I am changed for the better because of all of those things.

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If the name on your credit card does not match the name on your birth certificate, then you really need to re-evaluate your priorities.


We seem to live in a generation where everyone wants to go to college.

It is nice to see that people want to invest in their education, but at what expense? It's easy to commit to a school, and it is even easier to get yourself and your parents into thousands of dollars of debt because you're "living your best life."

To me, it's pathetic if you're over the age of eighteen and you don't have some sort of income or responsibilities outside of homework and attendance. The old excuse, "I want to focus on school," is no longer valid. You can get all A's while having a job, and that has nothing to do with intelligence, but rather your will to succeed. "I don't have time for a job/internship," translates to, "I'm really lazy,".

You don't need to overextend yourself and work forty hours a week, but you should at least work summers or weekends. Any job is a good job. Whether you babysit, walk dogs, work retail, serve tables or have an internship. You need to do something.

"My major is too hard," is not an excuse either. If you can go out on the weekends, you can work.

The rigor of your major should not determine whether or not you decide to contribute to your education. If the name on your credit card does not match the name on your birth certificate, then you really need to re-evaluate your priorities.

Working hard in school does not compensate for having any sense of responsibility.

I understand that not everyone has the same level of time management skills, but if you truly can't work during the school year, you need to be working over the summer and during your breaks. The money you make should not exclusively be for spending; you should be putting it towards books, loans, or housing.

Internships are important too, paid or not.

In my opinion, if you chose not to work for income, you should be working for experience. Your resume includes your degree, but your degree does not include your resume. Experience is important, and internships provide experience. A person working an unpaid internship deserves the same credit as a student working full/part-time.

Though they are not bringing in income for their education, they are gaining experience, and opening up potential opportunities for themselves.

If you go to college just to go to class and do nothing else, then you don't deserve to be there. College is so much more than just turning in assignments, it is a place for mental and academic growth. You need to contribute to your education, whether it is through working for income or working for knowledge or experience.

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I'm A Girl In Engineering And It's Not As Easy As It Looks

It's not always easy being the only girl in the room.


Coming into college, I knew I wanted to major in engineering, and I was well aware that I would be in the minority because I am a girl. I always thought that I would be ready and prepared for this, but after being in college for a few weeks, I started to feel a little weird.

I noticed that I was one of the only girls in my lecture classes and it was rare if any of us ever decided to speak up in class or ask questions. Seeing as I am very introverted, I also struggled to make friends in classes where people didn't just take the initiative and talk to me. My classes seemed quiet and seemingly being the only girl in the room as intimidating.

Luckily, I did find friends within my major and I have been able to get to know them and study with them. We are always able to run to each other for help if we need to, and we always go to each other for group projects.

So, it's not always bad being the only girl in the room, just know that it will be weird. You will have to work extra hard to make friends, but you will be ok. Talk to the person sitting next to you, make friends. It will be awkward, but in the end, it'll all be ok.

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