To My Best Friend Graduating College

To My Best Friend Graduating College

Words cannot express how proud I am of you.

Dear my best friend,

There are 26 letters in the alphabet, and despite the infinite possibilities in which these letters can be arranged into millions of words, there is no way to properly express how proud I am of you.

It's hard to believe it's already today- you're graduating college! You're officially better than me, even though we knew that all along.

I have watched you work so incredibly hard over these past four years. I feel blessed to have been there through it all: helping you move in to your freshman dorm, your acceptance to the honors program, and surviving a brutal biomedical engineering program... and doing it all with a smile on your face.

I know the past four years haven't been easy. There were many a night you went to bed without eating, and we went days without really talking because we were both just too busy with school.And when the going got tough, you never gave up. And for that, I admire you.

You kicked college's ass, and now you're graduating with honors! I couldn't be more proud of you for all you've accomplished. But truly, the best is yet to come.

You're now a full-fledged adult! Next comes moving out of your parents' house, getting your own place, and getting a full time job- not necessarily in that order. I am so happy for you that you already have a well-paying, full time job waiting for you after graduation! I would say you're lucky, but I know it's a direct result of all your hard work and the dedicated individual you are.

Even when you were worried you wouldn't make it through, I always knew you were going to be OK- that no matter what, you would succeed. Even though you doubted yourself sometimes (we all do), you never, ever gave up.

You are my inspiration every day to keep moving forward and never take my eyes off the prize: a degree, a good job, and independent life.

Every day you inspire me to work hard and stay true to myself, especially when times get hard. When I doubt myself, all I have to do is look at you.

You are my real life role model, even though you're only two years (OK- and a half) older than me. You are my personal definition of success. I've watched you blossom from an 18-year-old high school band nerd to a professional engineer. Watching you grow up and become successful has given me faith in myself, and I know that you would never let me fail.

The fact that you're graduating college reminds me of just how quickly time flies. I remember coming up to visit you in your freshman year like it was yesterday. I will always cherish the college memories we do have together, even though we go to different colleges.

I can't believe that today I will see you in your blue cap and gown, and an incredibly well-deserved Bachelor's degree in your hands. You give me hope that I will graduate college too. Because with you as my best friend, anything is possible. You've proven that to me.

So thank you for showing me what it means to have hard work and unwavering dedication pay off. And thank you for teaching me that even in the darkest times, there is always a glimmer of hope. And thank you for believing in me, as I have always believed in you.

I cannot say congratulations enough for graduating college today, and with so much to show for it. You are on your way to do great things, beyond both of our imaginations. And I'll be here every step of the way, supporting you, and cheering you on no matter what. I'll always be your biggest fan.

Congratulations, my friend. Or dare I say... conGRADulations.

I love you forever.

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Coastal Carolina University

Consistently voted one of the top party schools in the nation. #It'snotcollegeit'sCoastal.

Winthrop University

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Bob Jones University

At what other school do you see people wearing things that could be from the American Girl large colonial dolls Spring line?

Wofford College

The pearls, Greek Life, and Southern fashion are so real.

Furman University

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College of Charleston

Nard Dog is definitely in an a capella group in Charleston, taking in the city and the history while dressing like a frat star.

Medical University of South Carolina

Andy isn't alone in Charleston. Dwight is down there becoming a doctor. Yes, someone who can save lives and is able to do surgery. Although, who else would you expect to be a doctor?

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To The Professor Who Makes College Difficult For Difficulty's Sake, Who Made You Like This?

We all have that one professor each quarter/semester that makes life harder.


To professors everywhere,

Don't forget your students are young, dumb, and broke.

I think that many of your hearts become hardened while being a professor. Students with excuses, coworkers, and bosses who take advantage of you or just plain ignore you. All while trying to figure out how to grade over 100 papers, tell a TA what to do, and try and have your own life in the process. (I'm exhausted just typing about it).

But, as students, our lives are hard too. We have three or more classes in a week that each demand the same workload or each more than the last. Reading chapters of textbooks, worrying about exams, trying to find the motivation to show up to class when you make us feel stupid for not having the understanding in one quarter that you have after obtaining a Ph.D. Add our class loads to the jobs we have to maintain in order to survive and feed ourselves. Please do not forget, we make sacrifices for your classes.

For those of us who had to move away from home, we miss so much to be able to attend your classes as many days as we can. For everyone else, they might even show up to class sick because you won't accept an email that says, "I'm sick and I can't make it to class today," and penalize them for having to miss.

Lighten up.

When Arbitrarily, with all of this, social life, family, school, work, and we need to take a day off for a three day weekend, or we need to take a day to calm down from the hustle of college life, please understand. Mental illness is prominent in college students, if you are so tough on a student for taking a day off that they continue to overload their brain, their work slips.

We completely lose our motivation, you were in our shoes once, so why is it so hard for you to cut us a little bit of slack?

I am having at least three anxiety attacks in a single week, my class workload is ridiculous and I'm only taking three classes, but two of them have so much reading. I don't have enough time to work, finish my homework on time, and do all the reading you require... With the reasoning I've heard too many times to count, "Well this is just as much reading if not less than your other classes. This shouldn't be too difficult."

False. That makes it harder. I am not the only one.

Life is hard no matter how old you are. Please do not forget that your students are trying. They're trying to pass your class and get on with their lives as do you when the quarter/semester is up. Sometimes with our busy lives, we can't keep up, just put yourself in our shoes and ask yourself, "Am I contributing to the strife in this students life?" If you think you are or you're trying to rationalize why you're not, start thinking about ways to improve, for you and us.

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