To My Family This Thanksgiving, Since I Will Not Be Home For Turkey Day

To My Family This Thanksgiving, Since I Won't Be Home For Turkey Day

My heart is with you, even if my whole body will not be.


Dear family,

With the holiday season rolling around again, I find myself thinking about all that I have to be thankful for. This year, I will not be able to be home for Thanksgiving, but I truly wish I could be there with you — baking pies, frying the turkey, watching football, and just chatting. But I know that in just a few weeks, I will be home for Christmas break and we can continue our traditions then. For now, we will just need to rely on FaceTime (I apologize in advance for crying over FaceTime, I just miss you).

Our family is small, but it is close-knit. We have had our disagreements and our little fights, but we always come out stronger and closer. I cherish our movie nights and our walks at the pier on sunset, I cherish our Sunday barbecues and our vacations to explore new places.

Many of the holidays we celebrate revolve around giving gifts at one point or another. However, Thanksgiving does not fall into that category. At Thanksgiving, we wake up early to cook together, we sit around the table and say grace, we sit on the couch and watch television while we are stuffed, and then we stuff ourselves with some dessert. My favorite tradition was always trying a bite of pumpkin pie with grandma, even though we both did not enjoy it. Thanksgiving is all about the simple pleasures.

So, family, since I will not be home for Thanksgiving this year, I want you to know this — you are the people who I am most thankful for in my life.

To my parents,

Thank you. Thank you for raising me the way that you have, to be a responsible and caring and loving woman. Thank you for always being there to support me, whether it be academically, sports-wise, or even regarding other aspects of life. I have you to thank for my success, for giving me the tools to learn what has brought me this far in life. And now, as I am at a point in my life that I have been looking forward to forever, you have both stood by my side through the application process, the waiting process, and even the recently-beginning interview process. Your support and love mean the absolute world to me. I cannot wait for future moments spent together, especially the upcoming holidays like Christmas and New Years.

To my sister,

You are my main girl. Sisters by chance, best friends by choice, right? I am so thankful that you were born 16 years ago. Yes, we argue and we have petty fights, but five minutes later we are laughing and joking again. My wish is that you go to the same college that I go to for veterinary school. I want to spend more time and have more shenanigans together. You always give me good advice and are so sweet when I am feeling down, sometimes I feel like you are the big sister. Just know that I will always be here for you, no matter what.

Even though we will not be together, I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and know that I miss you greatly. I always prefer to be together, but I hope we will both have good days nonetheless.

So family, eat a little bit of extra stuffing and apple pie for me this Thanksgiving.

I love you Always and Forever to Infinity and Beyond,

You eternally grateful daughter

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Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.


When I was younger I resented you, I hated every ounce of you, and I used to question why God would give me a parent like you. Not now. Now I see the beauty and the blessings behind having an addict for a parent. If you're reading this, it isn't meant to hurt you, but rather to thank you.

Thank you for choosing your addiction over me.

Throughout my life, you have always chosen the addiction over my programs, my swim meets or even a simple movie night. You joke about it now or act as if I never questioned if you would wake up the next morning from your pill and alcohol-induced sleep, but I thank you for this. I thank you because I gained a relationship with God. The amount of time I spent praying for you strengthened our relationship in ways I could never explain.

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Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.

The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.

Thank you for showing me how to love.

From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.

Thank you for making me strong.

Thank you for leaving and for showing me how to be independent. From you, I have learned that I do not need anyone else to prove to me that I am worthy of being loved. From you, I have learned that life is always hard, but you shouldn't give into the things that make you feel good for a short while, but should search for the real happiness in life.

Most of all, thank you for showing me how to turn my hurt into motivation.

I have learned that the cycle of addiction is not something that will continue into my life. You have hurt me more than anyone, but through that hurt, I have pushed myself to become the best version of myself.

Thank you for choosing the addiction over me because you've made me stronger, wiser, and loving than I ever could've been before.

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Do Not Be Ungrateful This Thanksgiving, Here Are 33 Reasons Why You Should Be Thankful

We do not spend enough time being thankful, and that is unfair


Thanksgiving is a beautiful, unique and American holiday. Thanksgiving is about food, about family, but especially is about being thankful. I know, we spend a lot of our time complaining about several things, our job, our professor, our boss, our partner, our family, ourselves, our politicians, our favorite artist, our car and much more.

We do not spend enough time being thankful, and that is unfair. We have many reasons to say thanks; I give you thirty-three. Here are my reasons to be thankful (and I think they are yours too):

1. Our family. Even if you don’t like them, they made you like you are.

2. To be alive. You may not like your life, but it is an opportunity.

3. To live in the US. Have you seen all the people in the world who want to live here? The US is a country full of opportunities.

4. Our jobs. I don’t like mine either, but it pays my bill, and it reminds me I can do something better.

5. Our schools/colleges/universities. We are so lucky because we have the chance to study.

6. To vote. It took thousands of years to get the right to vote and chose our representatives, governors, presidents, senator and others (if you’re a woman or part of a minority you must be more thankful).

7. For Facebook. The best way to know our friends and relatives’ lives

8. For our favorite TV shows. We are living in the golden age of TV; we are so lucky (and we have TV Reboots & Revivals).

9. We can dream. We can change our lives; we can choose our destiny. Half of the people in the world do not have that chance.

10. For love. It does not matter if you have a partner or you don’t; enjoy the fact you have your stories and you will have more.

11. For babies, puppies, cats and dogs. What would we do with all those hours watching their videos on Youtube?

12. Free sexuality. We are living in the time where you can be anything you want, and you can love anybody you want. Just think, fifty years ago, we were prisoners of society.

13. “Game of Thrones” is back in April 2019. We have been waiting too long.

14. For books. Reading makes us better people.

15. For Instagram. Food never was more important than now. IG is the best way to know how our celebrities’ lives are.

16. For our friends. I cannot imagine my life without my friends; they are my rock and the best support in the worse moments.

17. For Netflix. How did we spend our Sundays before?

18. We are the last generation who can handle climate change and save the world.

19. For Christmas. 

20. For your kids. I am talking about your own, your nephews, nieces, siblings, godchildren, step kids, even your neighbors.

21. For alcohol and all the good memories (and really bad decisions), it made us have.

22. Freedom of the press. Today more than any other time we must be thankful about freedom of the press (and we must protect it).

23. For our health. Even if you are not completely healthy, you are in the era where medicine is available and improving every second.

24. For #Metoo movement. Finally, we can share our experiences and stop them for the next generations.

25. For traveling. You can go to Australia, Madagascar, France or Chile if you want. There are no limits.

26. For freedom.

27. For second chances. We all need them in all the moments of our lives.

28. For food. Because it makes our lives better and delicious.

29. For memes. Now each picture has a huge potential to be famous.

30. For God or the Gods. Be thankful because you have somebody who listens to your prays.

31. For the Future. Because we can make it.

32. For the past. Because it is our history.

33. For the present. We are living the best of all the times. Today, most of the social movements have had important advances. It is easier to be a woman, a minority, a refugee, an immigrant or have a disability. 

Yes, probably I am missing some important motives to be thankful which means there are dozens of more reasons. By the way, Happy Thanksgiving!

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