We’ve all been there: the matted hair, smeared makeup, and the walk of shame home (or, if you’re lucky, to your friend’s car, who kindly offered to rescue you) after spending the night in someone else’s bed; AKA shacking. You either experience the joy of coming home in last night’s dress, heels in hand, or looking homeless in an oversized t-shirt and sweats. As fun as it is to mock your friends when they come home after a night like this, I’ve decided to make a guide of sorts to help you thrive during your next shacking experience.
It can be hard to be prepared; it’s not like you plan out in advance each time you’re not going to sleep in your own bed. But don’t worry, there is, in fact, an easy solution: start bringing a damn purse when you go out. I know it’s annoying, as I personally leave with my phone in hand, some cash, and not much else, but this will be your savior. I’m not saying to whip out your Longchamp and bring your entire skincare regime, pajamas, and an outfit for the next day, but there are some little things you can include and plan out in advance.
- Hygiene is key. Most importantly, deodorant and a travel toothbrush. You’ll be really glad you did when he comes back from the bathroom minty fresh and you can brush away the taste of alcohol. Or, at the very least, I know you have space for a stick of gum or some mints.
- If you have the space, maybe toss in some flip flops if you plan on wearing some sky high heels. Because honestly, we all know you (and your feet) will thank yourself the following morning. And if you’re really feeling prepared, try to wear something that isn’t so conspicuous that you feel you have to borrow his clothes. I know a shack shirt makes a great trophy, but he’ll appreciate that you didn’t play for keeps with his favorite sweatshirt.
- Charge your phone. This really should be a no-brainer, but waking up with a dead phone and in desperate need of calling a friend is definitely quite the challenge. Also, safety is key, so this one is pretty much the most important thing to remember.
- Make sure someone knows where you’re going so that in the event you end up stranded with a dead phone, they know where to find you if there’s any cause for concern. My friends and I all have an app that allows us to track each other. Remember, safety’s sexy, right?
- And on that note, if you intend to hook up with whoever you're shacking with rather than just having a friendly sleepover, buy some condoms. Better to come prepared just in case than having to deal with a scare later.
- Finally, always remember that just because you shack, that doesn’t mean you are required or agreed to hook up, nor does it even have to be with a boy! Shacking can be for friends of any sort, with or without the benefits.
