“How to be Single” is basically the story of single millennials living in New York City and how they attempt to navigate the dating scene. It stars Dakota Johnson, Rebel Wilson, and Leslie Mann. To be honest, this movie exceeded my expectations, no doubt. I laughed more than I thought and it forced me to ponder my life. Essentially, what I got from this movie is that in your early twenties, you should really spend your time figuring out your relationship with yourself, instead of searching for a partner. These are the times where you're supposed to be falling in love with you. Figuring out what works and what doesn't work for yourself is crucial to happiness. You do you, girlfriend.

I’m not going to tell you it was the best movie ever because it wasn’t. But, it got me thinking about the way that I have thought about being single. There's nothing wrong with being in a relationship, that's great for all those happy couples out there. All I am saying is that it’s easy to fall into the trap in college where society essentially tells you that the ultimate goal is to be in a relationship. I’ve come to realize that this couldn’t be farther from the truth. My greatest memories thus far have come from the times that I gave negative craps about boys and simply enjoyed the time with my friends. No need to impress anyone or keep you eyes open for “the one.” It’ll happen when it happens. Don’t rush it.

Reflecting on the movie and its topics, I have gained an appreciation for my single college life. No matter what, I will always look back on the past four years and think about the amazing friends I made, experiences I had, and the things I learned from them. Nothing went according to plan, but I wouldn't have it any other way. Anyway, shout out to the single people out there who didn't mope about Valentine's Day.

I one hundred percent recommend you seeing this movie if you are a single, twenty-something chick who needs a little pick me up. It’ll have you feeling some type of way and coming to some much needed realizations. Embrace your single-ness, ladies.