Fathers are for advice on how you should and should not be treated. When someone hurts you, they hurt your dad, and that is something they simply should never dare to do. He's there to fight your battles (even when you don't want him to) when your friends are mean or when the ump makes a bad call; he will never hesitate to voice his opinion. This advice could be ranging from something as simple as where to get your tires, to who to spend the rest of your life with, all advice is important.
Dads are for discipline. Although it never seems so at the time, they always know what they're talking about. Chances are they made the same mistake you were contemplating making and they want to save you the hassle. After all, you are your father's child. Groundings and yelling and slammed doors are all a part of deal. He accepts this challenge with open arms and a fixed and steady determination—he will not be defeated.
Dads are for hugs. Hug him when you're sad, hug him when you're happy. Hug him when you want something, hug him when you simply need one. Cling to his arm in times of fear. You're never to old to see him as your protector. In his eyes, you'll always be his most prized possession.
They are for comfort, whether it's the silence during football, enjoying each other's company, but daring not to break the unwritten rule of talking during a tight game. Or the promise of a riveting discussion on the mechanics of his newest dream car, you know he's always there.
He will dry your eyes in times of heartache and make you laugh until those tears return, replacing any thought of the pain that once originated. They are providers, giving you solace in the idea that they are doing all they can to ensure your life is comfortable, always putting your needs and happiness first. Their bravery will never waver when it comes to protecting their own, whether it be parking lot arguments after school or PTA meetings, they can do it all.
But most importantly. Dads are for friendship. They can be your companion, your confidant, and the best listener you've ever met. They will love you through everything and every mistake. My father is the most amazing and important man in my life and that will never change. Father's Day is one day out of the year, but the support they give and the role they play in our lives and in shaping us as people is constant, it is non-stop. So don't let Father's Day be the only day you thank them for that. Dads are for love, and that love exists three hundred and sixty-five days a year, not just the third Sunday of June. Let your thanks be the same.
