Now, I know what you're about to think: "This is just yet another college-aged girl writing about her problems and why she can't stand girls and blah blah blah". Well, my friend, I am here to tell you that you are sadly mistaken. I am here to tell you the real problem with girls, and not just the reasons why I can't stand my own kind. So, here goes nothing.
The first problem with girls is that some have absolutely no respect for others. Some think that they are immune to the sacred rules of respect in society. For example, if you know I have a boyfriend and are constantly snap-chatting him, texting him and whatever else you may be doing in an attempt to get the attention that he is clearly not returning, that is disrespectful. Some girls need to learn that sometimes the things you want are already off the market, so it is then time to go and find your own prize.
The second problem with girls is we put each other down rather than building each other up. Each girl is unique and special in our own ways and have qualities that are both good and bad. We often times put someone down for the way their hair looks, how they're dressed, talk or act and it's beyond unfair. To them, they think they look good or are confident enough to go out in public with no makeup, or go out for the night in that tight, figure showing dress. Regardless, they are proud of who they are and we attempt to tear them down because of it.
The third problem with girls is that we can be fake. I'm the type of person that you will know if I don't like you or if I do. I don't see the point in trying to please everyone, because ultimately, we leave this world with only ourselves and knowing who we are, and that's all that matters to me. However, some people believe the opposite and in an attempt to make friends with everyone, turn fake as can be in the effort of doing so. And, the fake-ness is presented when said girl is in front of her "friends" and shows how she really feels about the girl whose sweater she just dishonestly complimented.
Our society has raised girls into a being that they don't have to be. To survive in it, girls turn into something they would never be if they didn't feel they had to. Also, some girls are disrespectful in the aspects of respecting other people's feelings, relationships, friendships, etc. To rid these problems, our species must take a step back and think, "Wow, what if someone was doing this to me?" and place themselves in the others shoes. And that, friends, is the real problem with girls.
