From personal experience, I can tell you that having confidence is not always easy. You're constantly judging yourself, your actions, and what people might say about you. It's really hard to be yourself in a world that can be so critical sometimes. The important thing is to remember is that you are your own person and you are in control of your life, not someone else.
Don't worry about what someone might say about you. If you want to wear that shirt then you go ahead and wear it. If you want to dye your hair a fun color then go grab that hair dye and get to work! Life's too short to miss out on things you want to do just because you're worried that someone is going to judge you for it. Have fun! Many times when people criticize you it's because they wish they had the confidence to do what you're doing. Take it as a compliment and keep rocking it.
Speak your mind; your opinion matters too. I know personally that I never really voice my opinion because I didn't want to start a debate. I usually just agree with people when they say something because I don't want to tell them that I disagree. But I've come to realize that what I think matters, too and I should be able to say what I think instead of just agreeing with other people. It's okay to be wrong sometimes too. You should still speak your mind even if you're afraid that someone might disagree. Don't be afraid.
Your body is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Everyone is always worried about having the perfect "beach body." You have a body and you have a beach, therefore you have a beach body! If you want to wear a bikini then go ahead and rock it. Don't worry about what other people are saying because chances are, they are uncomfortable in their own skin and wish they could be carefree like you.
Confidence is attractive. People are drawn to those who carry themselves with self-confidence and leadership. Be assertive and sure of your actions and you'll be sure to draw some attention. It shows others that you're not afraid to be daring and maybe break away from the norm. High self-esteem is a good quality to have!
Overall, be confident in your words, your actions, your style, and most importantly yourself. A lot of people will envy the kind of charisma you have to be able to just be yourself. It's really hard nowadays to really be yourself and show your true colors. Embrace yourself and do what you want to do. Life is way too short to worry about what other people think. No one else gets to live your life but you. Be confident, it looks good on you.
