To the girl who falls in love with my brother, first off let me say that you are one lucky lady. I have no doubt in my mind, that no matter what you guys go through in your relationship that my brother is going to love you unconditionally. I know that he is going to be there by your side through thick and thin, because that is just the kind of young man that he is. He may have had open-heart surgery when he was a kid, but metaphorically speaking, he has one of the biggest hearts that I know of!

You are probably going to learn a lot from him. Whether it is him giving you the rundown on the latest movies, or him just frankly being a royal pain in the butt, you are going to learn tons! You are going to learn patience in dealing with his crazy antics (Believe me, sister, this one is hard!) and how no one should ever judge a book by its cover. You are going to learn that my brother is on the autism spectrum, and even though his case is very minor, you are going to learn that just because someone may seem “different” does not mean that they are. So let’s just say you are going to learn a lot!

You are going to love a lot! You are going to realize that the way that he cares about you is so real that it should be a Nicholas Sparks book! Not only is he going to love you, but my family will (probably). If you are ever so lucky to be introduced to our family, then you will (probably) be greeted with open arms. It takes a strong, patient, and humble woman to put up with my brother, so if you love him you probably have all of those qualities.

So wherever you are, I am very excited to meet you! Know that I promise to be nothing but supportive of your relationship with him, just as long as you promise not to break his heart! YYG for loving him!