"The best things in life are free" Some agree, some disagree, I think you can have the best of both worlds. Some of the best things in life can certainly be bought, but some of the best things can be bought, because they are not tangible things. This list will illustrate what I think are some of the best things in the world.
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Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.
While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.
This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...
1. Getting to see each other is a special event.
Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.
2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.
This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.
3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.
While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.
4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.
When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.
5. You know they will always be a part of your life.
If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.
The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.
It always shocks every person who hears me state that I do not have any cousins. For some reason, this is just hard for people to really believe when it's actually not something impossible. I think we are all just so used to large families that it sounds weird when people say that they have no cousins. Yet, it is definitely a potential reality, and actually impossible if each of your parents is the only child to your grandparents.
Here are 14 things that you can relate to if you grew up without any cousins.
1. Nobody believes you when you say that you don't have any cousins
I'm serious, for the tenth time.
2. Your grandparents spoil you
With no other grandchildren to worry about, it's pretty easy to do.
3. You don't understand when people say that cousins are your first best friends
My best friend was my first best friend.
4. You and your siblings are always the youngest people at family events
This was simultaneosuly a good thing and a bad thing.
5. You get all of the attention at holidays
Since you're the youngest one around, then distant relatives are always doting over you.
6. Everything you do is deemed awesome by your extended family because there is nobody to compete with
It's much easier to be praised when you aren't being compared to someone similar to your age.
7. You don't know how to hold babies
You're never around them so why would you?
8. Family photos are pretty easy to coordinate
The less people, the easier.
9. Other family members spoil you just because
Afterall, you are the only kid around...
10. The family will make comments regarding the potential for you to have a cousin as a justification for why they aren't doing something for you
When you hear, "I can't buy you too much because someday your aunt is going to have kids and I will have to do the same for them" you cringe and just had to know that all of the attention wouldn't last forever.
11. Birthdays are always a big deal
A perk of not having very many to remember.
12. If your parents' siblings own pets, then you refer to the animal as your cousin
Cat cousins, dog cousins, lizard cousins, and fish cousins can be pretty cool, actually.
13. Sometimes you dream of marrying into a big family
This is to ensure that your kids do grow up with cousins.
14. You appreciate the closeness of your tight-knit fam
Maybe the only thing you would miss if you had a big family is the opportunity to develop such close bonds with the few relatives that you do have.