The #1 Essential To Bring To College

The #1 Essential To Bring To College

Are you prepared?

Packing up my life is not easy. What do I bring? What do I leave?

What is the biggest essential that cannot be left behind? My favorite pair of jeans? A framed picture of my family? A microwave oven and mini fridge? Oh, wait computer and phone?

So many items, objects, devices, gadgets, and belongings seem essential to making it in college.

There is, however, a number one. What takes first place?

Moving into college is exciting and scary. There are thousands of new people, hundreds of different opportunities, and seemingly uncountable unknowns and fears. It seems as though preparing to move across the state or across the country entails making a long list of "must-haves" and checking them off the list. This prepares us materialistically but emotionally we find ourselves lost, intimidated, or caught off guard.

They key is packing our mind full of treasures and necessities rather than packing our suitcases.

We need encouragement, support, accountability partners, passion, joy, patience, etc. These qualities we are searching for can be hard to find. That is where we need the help of that "number one essential to bring to college." We need intention.

Now you may be thinking, "intention? That is the answer to all my problems? That is the most important thing I need for college?"

I would argue yes.

We need intention to meet our expectations and dreams in life. We need to intentionally surround ourselves with what we need in order to realize our full potentials and make us happy. Without intention we run around expecting the world to somehow respond to our wants and needs and provide for us.

Rather than making friends that are convenient we need to seek out friendships that are real and lasting. Rather than walking into classes and going through the motions we need to intentionally prepare our minds to contain information that will help us in our careers. Instead of expecting the excitement of college to keep us happy beyond the first few weeks of school we must discover the ways in which we can bring joy to our lives and intentionally take time for ourselves. Instead of expecting that relationships with family members and childhood friends back at home will remain strong we must intentionally seek out time to connect with them. We must also be intentional about the clubs and activities we choose to engage in. Rather than participating in opportunities that simply give us things to do and fill our schedules, we need to realize that with intention we can be involved in activities that fuel our passions.

It is important to remember your favorite jeans. It is important to remember your Macbook and iPhone.

This new chapter in life, however, does not only challenge us to be prepared physically. This new chapter in life challenges us to grow into the people we desire to become.

Intention puts us at the trail head that ultimately leads to the view of ourselves we want to be one day. I encourage you to start the hike.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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