To his ex-girlfriend:
Thank you for giving up on him and not realizing what a great guy was in front of you. Sometimes we don't realize what we have until it's gone but I find him amazing and so caring and he always seems to be there for me. You didn't see that but thank for not seeing that because I got the chance to see it for myself and be with him.
Also thank you for going up to him at his fraternity party when I had first met him and tried to hit on him because I know he turned you down. And that makes me have 10 times more respect for him.
Thank you for also not being able to see that he is still growing just like every one else around us. He's already amazing but imagine 10 years from now how great he's going to be.
Thank you for calling him names, not because I like to hear that he was hurt by it but it now makes him realize that he has something great in front of him. Plus people who care about each other don't do that to one another no matter what the incident or situation is. I mean why would you hurt someone that you love?
Although I am insecure sometimes and yes I have to be reassured by him that he isn't going to hurt me, I know that if he put up with you and you treating him so unfair that he isn't going to hurt me. So once again thank you for doing that because now I get to see that I give him things you never gave him.
You may be the ex but thank you for being it because then I would have never have gotten the chance to be with him or to see who he is. I'm actually happy he dated you because now he sees when something good is in front of him and he will get to be happy finally. Not "happy" but the happiness that you get when you are at one with your soul.
Here's to you here's to me the same we will never be.