Have you ever heard the saying "too blessed to be stressed"? You may find that saying to be silly, but it holds so much truth. The holidays are a time when I am most reflective on what to be thankful for. Despite my appreciation for a perfect cup of coffee or my obsession with shoes, there truly are more important things in life. With the chaos and stress of every college student's daily schedule, it is easy to forget about the obvious things that we should be most thankful for. Here are some blessings to keep in mind this holiday season & always.
1. Family, family, family
They always come first, no matter what. Yes, every family has their problems; no family is normal or perfect. However, they are the ones that are there for you through thick and thin. Call your parents or siblings whenever you get a chance. Appreciate them for loving you unconditionally (and just thank God that your family is not the Kardashians).
2. BFFs
Your best friends are the people that you go to when your family is driving you nuts. They do not judge you for showing up to Sunday brunch in your outfit from last night. They never get tired of hearing you vent about the same jerk over and over again (always listen to them if they do not approve, because they're probably right). They are always down for "Sex & the City" marathons. They do not judge your sick addiction to Chipotle... in fact, they encourage it. They would be there in a heartbeat if you needed a shoulder to cry on. What would you do without them?
3. Home
There's nothing like the comfort of going home for a holiday break or a weekend getaway. It's the little things: sleeping in your own bed, cuddling with your dog, going to your favorite café or even driving past places where you used to get in trouble as a teenager (sorry, Mom and Dad). Whenever you go home, there's a sweet nostalgia about the place where you grew up. It had a part in shaping you into who you are and forever holds a place in your heart.
4. Learning
I am forever grateful for my college education. Whenever I pick classes for the upcoming semester, I am overwhelmed by how many interesting class choices are offered for every major. College students are very fortunate to receive all kinds of knowledge by learning about the world around them. Intelligence truly is power and gives young people the opportunity to prepare for their future. So, go ahead — embrace your inner-nerd and immerse yourself in your studies while you can.
5. Food
Pizza... that's all.
6. Dogs
If you ever meet someone who says they are not a "dog person," then they are not your friend. Dogs are bundles of joy that provide happiness to everyone in their path. I have been lucky enough to grow up with numerous canine pets who were all a part of the family. Don't get me wrong — cats are chill, but dogs just have such an affectionate energy to them. When dogs are excited, they show how pumped they are to be around you... by licking your face. They are fluffy companions that love to snuggle with you and they never let you down. I am grateful for pups.
7. Nature
I've always had a huge appreciation for the earth. Whether it's the ocean or the mountains, nature is all around just waiting to be embraced. From swimming in the sea to skiing through snow, there are so many reasons to be thankful for the outdoors. The beauty of the sun rising over the mountains and setting over the lake truly gives me the feels. Take a hike — you won't regret the view from the top.
8. Health
Is your heart beating right now? You are breathing, which means you have enough health to simply be alive. Be thankful for your life.
