Everyone out there has somebody to thank. The question is though, do they know you appreciate them? My two older brothers are some of the most protective, fun, selfless people out there and I know they would do anything to make sure I am successful and happy. That is a sibling love I wish everyone could feel.
Growing up, they used to frustrate the dickens out of me with how they would behave, how perfect they were, how protective they would be if I even mentioned I was friends with some of the male gender, but they would also have my back.
They’re the someone that drops everything to help me with a hard class, takes time to pick up the phone to check in on me, or remind the boy I’m dating that they aren’t as far as away as they seem if something goes wrong.
Brothers are funny. You think they’ll help you figure out how men’s minds work… but they don’t. You hope they’ll keep their mouth shut about a certain topic so that you can have one calm family dinner. But you never wish for them to leave.
It’s weird growing older and realizing two of your best friends aren’t 10 feet away from you when you’re studying. They have their own lives to keep track of, their own work to get done, and another girl to watch over.
This is satisfying but can also be heartbreaking. As I’ve gone through college, meeting others and hearing about their family relationships I realize I am blessed with a very close family and it should never be taken for granted.
A sister that always wants to talk is a blessing, not an inconvenience, brothers that “remind” other guys that you have a high level of protection is most definitely a perk, and parents that support you no matter what happens is one of the best gifts you can be given.
This is a thank you for the times I didn’t say it. A thank you for when I yelled or cried instead of embracing your hug. This is a thank you for building me and reminding me I am capable. Wouldn’t trade any of the embarrassment you have caused me, for the world. Majority of the time, I bring it on myself.
Thank you to all you have been there when I wasn’t looking.
(Side note: Oldest brother not pictured in the photo, but he is just as relevant as the others)
