Life is filled with ups and downs, and along the way, we may meet some people who make it all worthwhile, and some who may make us want to rip our hair right from our heads. We may meet people who we think will stay in our lives forever, but then realize that they will leave as quickly as they arrived. Although breakups are never fun, whether they are with boyfriends/girlfriends, friends or even family members, we may often look back and realize that we went through these things for a reason.
You had to meet those people for a reason, no matter how badly they hurt you or how “miserable” they may have made you, this was done as part of a bigger plan. It may be hard to comprehend when it happens, but looking back afterwards it is easy to see that sometimes we need to meet people and experience the hardships that may arise, for many reasons. So to all of the people who have left me on my wonderful journey through life, this is for you; thank you.
Thank you for showing me the type of people I don;t need in my life, and for showing me who I truly deserve.
I don’t deserve anyone in my life who is going to make it anything less than great, and thank you for showing me that. When I met you, you may have seemed like this great person who I absolutely needed in my life, but I soon learned that this was not true at all. I do not need anyone who is going to bring me down, or someone I cannot fully trust. Because that is exactly what relationships are about, trust. So to the friends and boys who have showed me just how careful to be with my trust, thank you. You have shown me the type of people I truly want and need in my life, and the people I do not deserve to give myself to in any type of way.
Thank you for helping me experience hard times, because now I can truly appreciate the good times.
I honestly believe that it is important for everyone to go through hard times, and to be stabbed in the back and/or betrayed. This only gives us an extremely important life lesson; watch who you surround yourself with, and appreciate those who are true to you. Being screwed over by an important person in your life is traumatic, yet it has helped me figure out myself in a deeper way than I had ever thought possible. So to the people who have betrayed me and made me feel like I was hopeless at some point in my life, thank you. Because of you, I now know who I am truly deep down, and I know what I want in life and who I want to surround myself with. Thank you for helping me appreciate the positive things that occur in my life, because now I am that much more grateful for them than before.
