We all have a favorite song, favorite Netflix series and favorite pizza topping. The feeling of having that number one thing to go to is comforting and can often times apply to people in your life. I could not have any more love and respect for the Greek organization my boyfriend is involved in. He has gone from an overconfident freshman (sorry) to an assertive, responsible and caring young man. While I may have played a minor role in his transformation, I have to give a huge thanks to the guys who I have grown to love as my own family.

Whether it is with your new members or someone you don’t know, you guys have always been the first to say hello. I admire your ability to be outgoing and show nothing but respect to complete strangers. Thank you for teaching me how to put myself out there with people I don’t know because it has led me to the best friendships.

2. Thanks for always focusing on the good.

You never have anything to say about my ugly days, but if I try a new pair of shoes or a mediocre hairstyle you guys are the first to tell me they're awesome. I have never felt confident in my own skin, and you guys have made me feel at home in it. If something is going wrong, you guys always have the ability to make light of things. Laughing with you never gets old.

3. Thanks for handing me the aux.

Everyone thinks they have mad decent aux skills, but you guys understand that I am a master of setting the musical mood. I have spent enough time with you guys to know who needs 90s rap, summer hits of the 2000s, Cole Swindell or even Marshmello. I get it and I am thankful you trust me with that responsibility. Thank you for always being willing to tear down the dance floor with the help of my crafted Spotify playlist.

4. Thanks for showing me how to dream big.

I try my hardest to do it on my own, but you guys have pushed me to be the best version of myself with your guidance and mentorship. You have bestowed your wisdom upon me about navigating through this crazy life during and after college. Thanks for all the road trips and spur of the moment memories.

5. Thanks for always being there.

I mean this both literally and figuratively. Thank you for already being on my couch when I burst through the door having a full-fledged breakdown. Thanks for laughing at how ugly I look when I cry to cheer me up. Thank you all for always being a text away when I need something heavy moved, someone to watch "How I Met You Mother" or even just get discounted Dairy Queen with. *shoutout to the Edwardsville area Dairy Queens for half off your order on the first and last Tuesday of the month with a college ID*

The men in my boyfriend’s greek organization have absolutely changed our lives for the better. They have seen us through good and bad and always supported us in whatever we do. I couldn’t imagine life without the virtue, diligence and brotherly love they live by every day, and I encourage everyone to take a look at what greek life can do for you.

And the final thank you for making you your sweetheart, I smile every day because of you gentlemen. You are all the second family I never imagined I could have, and I can't imagine life without you.