Ten Essentials For A Relaxing Self-Care Session

Ten Essentials For A Relaxing Self-Care Session

I share my weekly self-care routine, in the hopes of inspiring others to create something similar.

Life as a student or “almost-adult” can be a very tiring activity. It often feels as if responsibility outweighs relaxation and you will never have any time to yourself. I am a firm believer in self-care practices and making sure you don’t devote your entire life to working. This is why I propose to you to set aside a few hours each week to spend completely away from work and responsibilities and solely focus on your well-being. Working constantly will have negative effects on your health and it’s important to prevent that.

My personal self-care time is a Sunday evening, after my work has been completed and I have eaten dinner. This is the time that personally works for me because it gives me a fresh mind before the week ahead. I understand that everyone has different schedules and this may not work for everyone but I highly recommend it. Your self-care routine can consist of anything that would be beneficial to your mental health such as activities, food, talking to others etc. To those having trouble developing a routine that works for them, I have decided to share ten essential parts of my self care routine, because I believe that everyone could benefit from aspects of it.

1. Spa Treatment

In my opinion, one of the BEST ways to participate in self care is to give yourself the spa treatment. Run a nice warm bath with a bath bomb, bath salts, or bubbles and just allow yourself to have a nice soak. I also recommend using a face mask during this time too and maybe giving yourself a mani/pedi afterwards. (PSA: Freeman’s masks are like $5 a bottle and have multiple uses and make your skin super soft!!)

2. A Nice Beverage

Treating yourself also means treating your taste buds. I prefer to drink warm beverages like hot green tea or chamomile tea but if you are of age, a glass of red wine or champagne may be a nice addition, as long as it’s in moderation.

3. Snacks

What’s the drink without the food? What you have as your ~healing snack~ is up to you, but I usually lean towards sweeter things like chocolate or fruit. I recommend keeping these snacks on the lighter side so you do not have a stomach ache afterwards, defeating the purpose.

4. Books

There is truly nothing better than curling up with a book and having no worries. I prefer reading light-hearted fiction or “beach reads” during my self-care time. I don’t often turn to non-fiction or darker stories because I don’t want to stress myself out.

5. Comfy Clothes

Alright so after you’ve sat in the bathtub for so long you’ve started shriveling into a raisin and you’ve covered yourself in scented lotions, it’s time to change into the comfiest pajamas you own. My go-to is an old oversized t-shirt, pj pants from old navy, and fuzzy socks!

6. Talking to a friend

This is the point where I will curl up with a blanket and my phone and scroll through my social media and text a few of my friends to catch up and talk. I always like to keep in touch with those who are important to me, especially because I can be so busy throughout the week I forget to check up on them. Remember to always tell the ones you love that you love them, because you never know what could happen tomorrow.

7. Netflix

Occasionally, I will watch a few episodes of a favorite show such as Friends, How I Met Your Mother, or The Office. I like to watch things that are light-hearted and comedic because I don’t want to watch a stressful show during a time when I am trying to relax.

8. Pets

If you happen to have pets, it’s time to cuddle with them! I have two cats who I absolutely adore and they will always come and cuddle with me which makes my heart happy. If you don’t have any pets, watch some cute kitten/puppy videos on youtube and you might just cry because of the cuteness. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

9. Candles

I love to have a candle burning while I’m just chilling in my room because it adds on to the relaxation vibe I’m trying to create. You can find many lower-prices candles at Target or Bath and Body Works or you can get a wax melter and use that instead. Either way, find a scent that will make you feel at home and burn it in your bathroom or bedroom.

10. Yoga/ Meditation

As a final step before I go to sleep, I like to incorporate some simple yoga and meditation. Yoga helps stretch muscles and relax the mind and meditation can help mindfulness and regaining inner strength. After meditation I’m very drowsy so it’s usually at this point I will turn off the lights and go to sleep.

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50 Things To Be Happy About

It's the little things in life.

It is always easier to pick out the negatives in life. We tend to dwell on them and drown out the happy moments. I asked a friend to tell me something that made them happy. They sarcastically laughed at my question then thought about it for a minute. Nothing. But they could easily come up with things that made them unhappy. Then I read them my list, and they were smiling and laughing in agreement the whole time. There are so many more things to be happy and laugh about than we realize. After all- it's the little things in life that can mean the most! Here are 50 things that make me happy. What are your 50?

  1. The first warm day of the year
  2. Laughing so hard your abs ache
  3. Freshly washed sheets
  4. Looking through old pictures
  5. The smell of a coffee shop
  6. Eating cookie dough
  7. Reading a bible verse that perfectly fits your current situation
  8. Seeing someone open a gift you got them
  9. Eating birthday cake
  10. A shower after a long day
  11. Marking something off your to-do list
  12. Drinking ice cold water on a really hot day
  13. Dressing up for no reason
  14. Breakfast food
  15. Being able to lay in bed in the morning
  16. Finding something you love at the store
  17. And it’s on sale
  18. Cute elderly couples
  19. When a stranger compliments you
  20. Getting butterflies in your stomach
  21. Taking a nap
  22. Cooking something delicious
  23. Being lost for words
  24. Receiving a birthday card in the mail
  25. And there's money in it
  26. Finally cleaning your room
  27. Realizing how fortunate you are
  28. Waking up from a nightmare and realizing it wasn't real
  29. Fresh fruit
  30. Walking barefoot in the grass
  31. Singing along to a song in the car
  32. Sunrises
  33. Sunsets
  34. Freshly baked cookies with a glass of milk
  35. Summertime cookouts
  36. Feeling pretty
  37. Looking forward to something
  38. Lemonade
  39. Comfortable silences
  40. Waking up in the middle of the night and realizing you have more time to sleep
  41. Surviving another school year
  42. The cold side of the pillow
  43. The smell of popcorn
  44. Remembering something funny that happened
  45. Laughing to yourself about it
  46. Feeling weird about laughing to yourself
  47. Printed photographs
  48. Wearing a new outfit
  49. The sound of an ice cream truck
  50. Feeling confident
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You May Be In College, But Positive Reinforcement Is Still Essential For A Better Life

It's truly amazing to see how positive reinforcement, especially from a professor or someone who works in your chosen field, can boost your confidence.


Being a freshman in college is tough, and I'm absolutely positive that I'm not the first person to say that. For me, the biggest adjustments came with being far from home, having to make brand new friends, and actually figuring out what I want to do with my life. Now, those first two items were not that difficult to find solutions to, but that last one? That is a completely different story.

In the span of six-seven months, I have gone back and forth, again and again with just about every combination of majors and minors that you could think of. At this moment, I think I've finally found a combination that will truly push me to succeed in my goals. By the end of next semester, I'm hopeful that I will be able to declare my major and minors.

But, the point of this article is to share the point in this current semester, where I really believed that my goals can become a reality. Right now, I am enrolled in a course called "introduction to critical intelligence studies." After much debate with the class, our professor decided to put our midterm online, making it a take-home exam. It consisted of a few multiple choice questions and three essays of our choosing. With the idea that this exam was take-home, I knew that my professor would be expecting us to put our best foot forward and all of our time and effort into making sure we did well.

And I did. This was the first midterm result that I got back and it was a 100. How did I find this out? For one day, instead of class, my professor met with each of us individually for at least ten minutes to discuss what we were hoping to get out of this class. It was during this meeting that she told me my grades and more.

My professor had explained to me that based on my writing, she did not think that I was just a mere freshman. She continued to say that I have a knack for analysis, as well as the fact that it was truly evident that I took in all the information from her lectures and the assigned readings. With my grades in mind and what I hoped to do in the future, my professor assured me that I should have no problem accomplishing my goals. My professor made sure that I had confidence in myself and my abilities, providing me with even more steps that would lead to success.

It's truly amazing to see how positive reinforcement, especially from a professor or someone who works in your chosen field, can boost your confidence. This reinforcement has provided me with the means and opportunity to further push myself. Since this meeting, I have been in constant contact with my professor to learn about different opportunities that can build up my resume. With her help, as well as the director of the program, I've been able to learn more about anything and everything that has to do with intelligence.

I'm proud to say that I want to go into such a field. And I'm also proud to say that I'm thankful for everyone who has decided to push me and not only celebrate my successes — but also to help me learn from my mistakes.

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