Success Comes From Failures

Behind Your Success Is A Long Line Of Failures

The people who succeed are ones who know how to fail.


No one here can say they lived a life without disappointments. If there weren't struggles, why would there need to be for people to rise up to a challenge? If it isn't apparent now, it will be soon. It's better to deal with disappointments now rather than later.

Why wait to struggle? Not choosing to climb the wall doesn't make it go away. It's not like as long as the wall isn't scaled, that it will suddenly crumble and make all of this easy.

Living a safe life might at first appear to be a surefire way to avoid disappointment, yet the pursuit of easy success invites a lifetime of failures. It's not due to failing so often but rather not choosing to accept failing at a task until it's too late.

Since disappointment is inevitable, why not just chase it? Now, chasing failures and setbacks may sound silly and often comes at a cost. However, learning to do something right can't be done until it has first been done wrong. Now, the concept of failing sounds daunting, even scary, but no one can say they will never fail at something.

If you choose to accept the likelihood of failing at an ongoing task, the learning experience obtained will make it much easier to learn from them next time. Most often, being successful isn't a choice. It's like taking a vacation.

At first, it sounds like a weird analogy, seeing as vacations are meant to get away from the hustle of life, but anyone who planned one knows what goes in it. You drive state-to-state to a place you want to visit. Throughout your trip, you face numerous obstacles.

Your car could break down, you might encounter a roadblock, a major car accident might happen on the interstate, the list goes on. That's not going into more mundane interruptions like getting stuck in traffic or having to deal with going to the bathroom at inconvenient times.

These obstacles don't prevent you from reaching your destination, a destination important enough to reach no matter what. The vacation is the result of the destination, not the journey. It's often those mishaps encountered that end up being part of conversations among friends and family years down the road.

The point is, if something like a vacation is worth the frustration involved, surely something that is a passion is worth many more failures and disappointments.

After all, one learns how to succeed after they've known how to fail.

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How CISV Changed My Life

It is more than just a summer camp, trust me.

For anyone who knows me, they know CISV International is part of 80 percent of my daily conversation topics, and that almost everything I own has a CISV logo on it. Some people think CISV is brand and I just go crazy online shopping for their stuff. When I tell people about CISV, sometimes I get responses like “Oh, it's just a summer camp.” But, oh, it is more than just a summer camp, it is a lifestyle. It is the reason for who I am now, and it has had the biggest impact on my life.

So what is this CISV, CVS, or CV thing my shirts and pillows have stamped all over? CISV is an international organization that promotes peace education by building global friendships. Founded in 1951 by child psychologist Doris Allen, CISV is now active in more than 60 countries, offering a wide array of learning programs for children and youth, giving everyone an opportunity to experience bits and pieces of the world, and meeting people with similar ideals who are constantly striving for world unison and peace. CISV allows one to work and learn together with people from around the globe, while forming the kind of friendships that last a lifetime.

It is hard to image how four weeks can have such a big effect on someone, regardless of your age. For me, it was the most eye-opening experience, and CISV became such a big part of my life. Yes, CISV is a lot of fun and provides you with the best stories, but the biggest value of CISV is what it teaches you and how it inspires you. CISV is an organization that focuses on teaching children to become active leaders in their communities and take initiative for change. It motivates participants to constantly engage in conversations that matter, while being respectful to everyone’s background. CISV has given me the opportunity to immerse myself in cultural experiences that have put me in uncomfortable situations, but also teach me how to learn from them.

I have participated in about six summer programs in the past nine years, as well as being actively involved in Ecuador’s national chapter. Of course, the experience I had when I was 11 was very different from the experiences I had when I was 13, 17, or 19, but they weren’t different because one was better than the other or because they were in different countries. Each experience was unique because all the activities and debriefings were different, always teaching me how to see the world from multiple perspectives. All the experiences have been truly amazing, and I have had the opportunity to staff one of the programs, structured for 11-year-olds. It amazed me the types of discussions I could have with these kids, and how smart and reflective they were. I was able to see them change in the course of four weeks, and I know they will grow up to be individuals with positive mentalities who care about the world and the people in it, regardless of cultural differences.

The people I have met through this organization have become my role models. I now see them working on projects to help their communities through education or environmental programs, as well as becoming true leaders in their communities, and feel so grateful to have these people in my life. I have made friends from all over the world who have taught me the real meaning of dealing with long distance, and even though I don't get to see them as often, every reunion feels like we never got separated. I honestly never thought I would open up as much with people I've meet for less than a month, but it a great example of how CISV brings people together regardless of their cultural background.

CISV really changed my life, and I am completely sure it has done the same for thousands of other CISVers. Through CISV, I have become the weirdest, most open-minded, accepting version of myself.

(And if you are a CISVer, let’s virtually do the Pony Song because I know you are awesome!)

Cover Image Credit: Zabrina Motwani

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6 Reasons Traveling Is Good For Your Mind, Body, And Soul

Wherever you go, go with all your heart.


Have you ever traveled to a new destination and felt your mood instantly improve? Are you like me and feel happiest when you're on vacation? This is because traveling is a way for you to renew your soul and step out of your comfort zone. It keeps you happy and allows you to experience new things.

Visiting new destinations can open your mind to experiences you didn't even know were possible. You can meet new people, fall in love, try new foods, and see remarkable sites all while traveling. There are no limits to the places you can visit, and the things you can see. Currently, I am on a mini weekend trip to Arizona, and being here has opened my eyes and made me realize how impactful traveling really is on your mind, body, and soul. Traveling should be something you do as often as possible and whenever you get the chance. Here's why:

1. Traveling makes your heart happy 

Traveling is something that most people enjoy. It keeps the heart young and childlike. Traveling brings people joy because they get to experience new things that they love with the people they love.

2. It teaches you to embrace every moment 

Traveling can be unpredictable, especially because you are experiencing new things. Although it can be challenging, we learn best from these unpredictable moments. When we travel we learn to embrace every situation that is thrown at us.

3. Traveling relieves stress and improves mental health 

Traveling reduces stress and allows you to relax. More often than not, you take off work when you go on vacation and you focus on renewing your self. You get away from all the crazy things going on in your life, and you can just relax and focus on your own happiness.

4. It broadens your horizons 

Traveling lets you branch out and experience different cultures. You can try new foods, new activities, and meet all different types of people. You learn diversity, and you learn respect for other people and their culture's. Traveling helps you learn other perspectives around the world and lets your mind think in ways it never has before.

5. It keeps you healthy 

Traveling actually plays a big part in your physical health as well. During vacations, you often walk a lot to destinations and participate in calorie burning activities like hiking and swimming. Activities like these are often why you still are able to get your workout in while on vacation.

6. Traveling reminds you what is important 

Most importantly, traveling reminds you of the important things in life. We live day by day forgetting that every moment is remarkable. Sometimes, we get stuck in the same old boring routine and take for granted the life we have been given. Traveling reminds us that memories are valuable and that our lives should be cherished.

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