This one is for all of those ladies out there that are waiting.
Yes, I said waiting.
Are you waiting for that guy in your class to just ask for your number already?
Are you hoping the guy at the coffee shop you see everyday asks you out on a date?
Are you waiting and dreaming up every situation that could possibly happen when you meet your special someone?
You're waiting for that special someone to come find you. You've thought up every fantasy and cute little way you're just going to "run into" the one soon.
I am too. I'm not going to lie.
I literally sit in my car or at my desk or lay in bed and just dream about how my love life will somehow happen in the blink of an eye. Because, ya know, I've just never been the one to dream of being #foreveralone. Yeah, I know that isn't a thing anymore but oh is it ever so relevant.
I am right there with you!!
BUT I am here to tell you to STOP.
Be patient. You are still young and have so much to learn about yourself.
I do the same thing. I sit there on social media, watching couples my age get engaged or have babies or just have such a perfect relationship every single day.
I let it get under my skin. I let it tell me that I am not enough for a relationship. I let it get to me a lot more than people think.
But I have come to the realization that it will take its time and I will learn patience. I will take time for myself. I will create a whole new world and just live to grow myself physically, emotionally, mentally, faithfully and in every aspect of my life.
Once you start to spend more time with yourself, you develop a love for yourself. and after a while, being alone doesn't scare you.
God has a special plan for each and every one of us. So why rush it? God knows exactly what He's doing.
If you need it, here's the biggest reminder that I constantly am telling myself: God's plan is greater than yours or one you could ever dream of. Everything happens for a reason because it's all a part of HIS plan. NOT yours. God's love is greater. And until He leads you to your better half, keep praying and loving the Lord. He will lead you in the right direction. He has never failed you, why would He start now?!
Keep growing and believing in yourself, honey.
I promise the wait will be worth it!!