Please, Stop Killing People

Please, Stop Killing People

In what world is a terrorist dictator accused of killing his own citizens going to care about us killing more of his citizens?

On Saturday, April 7th, dozens of innocent Syrian civilians were killed in what appears to have been an attack by the Assad-led Syrian government on its own people with internationally illegal chemical weapons.

Decrying this heinous, reprehensible act of senseless violence and pointing to it as their impetus, the United States--joined in support this time by France and the UK--perpetrated its own reprehensible act of senseless violence, launching 118 or more missiles at the Syrian capital of Damascus late on the night of Friday, April 13th.

Though there is no official body count for this attack, a similar series of missile strikes by the US on a Syrian air base in April of last year resulted in the death of 15 total Syrians, including nine civilians. And this year the strikes were on Damascus, a heavily populated capital, rather than on a military base with small surrounding villages.

Many people have praised the president and, indeed, the country, for "sticking up to" Assad and the Syrian government's war crimes. But there is little to no reason to believe these strikes will do anything than stoke the flames of war and result in further unnecessary casualties of frightened men, women, and children that we can't even be bothered to help.

We conducted retaliatory strikes against Syria last year for a similar chemical attack on its people, and it still happened again. Dictator Assad does not care about the lives of the people he purports to govern; if he did, he wouldn't be using chemical weapons on them in the first place.

Meanwhile, he has been continually perpetrating other vicious attacks on his people up until this most recent attack, with little fanfare or attention from President Trump.

Meanwhile, in 2017, the United States killed as many as 6,000 civilians in the Middle East--not military personnel or terrorists; innocent men, women, and children--in missile strikes.

It is frankly inconceivable how someone can support these kinds of strikes on the basis of attempting to protect or save the Syrian people while simultaneously living in and supporting a nation who has, thus far this year, only taken in 11 (that's not a typo) refugees this year, despite overwhelming statistical evidence that refugees are not dangerous.

It is frankly inconceivable how a government pretends as though it lacks the resources and funds to fix the water pipes in Flint, MI or provide sufficient aid to Puerto Rico in the wake of a disastrous hurricane, while simultaneously spending well over $100 million in a single night just to send a "message" to a dictator.

War is senseless. Death is senseless. Allowing our own citizens to be literally poisoned by unsafe drinking water is senseless. Letting citizens in Puerto Rico remain homeless and without power is senseless. Refusing entry into our country people whose lives literally depend on it is senseless.

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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Dear America, We Can Step Forward As A Country If We Stop Believing That Only One Belief Is Valid

It's time to promote unity and emphasize our commonalities because only through unity can we step forward as a country.


Dear America,

2018 was a year of political strife and conflict. The left and the right fought constantly. Republicans and Democrats blamed each other for the tiniest mistakes, and there were only a small number of successful bipartisan deals. Politicians and citizens alike seemed more concerned with sticking to party platforms, even ones they truly didn't believe in, rather than compromising with the other side to improve our society.Yet all this name-calling and hatred — what does it do in the end? What does it accomplish?

We've only seen an increased polarization of American politics and an expanded hostility towards "the other side." We don't consider the well-being of each and every person in America and the bettering of our society, or the building of a stronger world for our children and grandchildren.

We spend so much time insulting each other's political beliefs that we forget probably the most important fact that links us all together: We are all human. We all share the same basic needs, the same struggles, the same moments of happiness and sadness.

And yet we are willing to put our similarities aside and only focus on our differences. We are willing to thrust ourselves into the deep anger and loathing that comes in attacking those different from us. We are willing to parry insults behind the safety of a phone screen and forget all about what makes us alike. And we are willing to gloss over the fact that we have more similarities than differences.

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Yes, political beliefs make a person. Political beliefs define the values, ideas and thoughts of a person. But sometimes, we have to reach over those beliefs, as hard as that may be, and focus on the bigger picture at hand. What will insulting someone because of those beliefs do? It definitely won't change their views or make them see things from your point of view.

It's sad and frustrating that this endless fighting doesn't even occur between two countries or two governments or two nation-states. Instead, we see arguments and strife between two family members, two neighbors or even two strangers, all living in the same community and under the same government, all sharing more similarities than differences.

We need to stop focusing so much on singular ideas. We need to stop believing in the close-minded idea that only one thought is the best thought. And instead of wasting energy trying to change other's opinions, we need to use that energy and time to promote unity and emphasize our commonalities.

These past few years have truly divided America. Let's make 2019 a year of unity, because only through unity can we step forward as a country.

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