I love my friends. I constantly have to be by their side, ask any of them. Sleepovers are very common because the thought of being apart doesn't sit well in our stomachs. My roommates consider them to be occupants of 516. My toothbrush holder holds not just mine, but five others. Toothpaste and perfume go fast, but when something is low they bring it over. We are a unit.

Growing up it was me and my three sisters in the house. My mom always told me I was the most independent. Going to college I knew how to take care of myself, mostly, and I wasn't scared of not having my mom by my side. Being from out of state the beginning of the school year was very much done solo, and as much as I wanted to make friends and be in the presence of others, being alone wasn't the worst thing.

A few days ago I went to the art district of Tallahassee, myself. Some thought it was weird but those two hours to myself were needed. Being in college, sharing an apartment with others, being involved in greek life, alone time has become rare. And as much as I hate prolonged periods of solidarity, those few hours myself were very much needed.

I did my lap around the district, finding myself at an outdoor bar, enjoying a beverage and taking in my surroundings. I wasn't scared of who I would run in to, that day was for me, and boy was it relaxing.

I think being alone is one thing people are scared of, I am, I'm assuming you are reading this, but who knows what I know. Friends and family are vital, they keep us sane, entertained, and rounded. I would be no where without my family, my friends, and my dogs, lets be honest here.

Be social just remember a few hours alone isn't something to look down upon. You deserve sitting in your bed binging Shameless, you deserve going to the grocery store yourself for a few minutes to be in your head. Give yourself attention, your friends and family can live without you for an hour.

Just some food for thought.