I have been alive for over 20 years and people have said a lot of things to me, about me or behind my back. Some of the things they have said have been a stab right in my female heart.
1. "Wow, thats a strong handshake for a girl."
Yes. A universal sign of strength and assertiveness. I bet my handshake is stronger than yours.
2. "When are you going to take time to start your family?"
I mean, maybe AFTER I finish my degree and I am in a financially stable place and actually want kids. As of now, I would like to focus on school.
3. "Wow, you must be really smart."
Yes. Don't act so surprised.
4. "Wow, you're strong for a girl."
Can I just be strong in general?
5. "Smile, sweetheart."
How many people do you know that smile 24/7? None? Wonder why.
6. "You sure are independent, for a girl."
Thanks, honestly. That's a compliment.
7. "Can't you take a joke?"
I can, if its a funny joke. But you were just rude and I called you out and now you are mad.
8. "You only get tipped more because you're a girl."
Maybe, it is because I talk to my tables more or fill up their drinks and make sure they are doing okay.
9. "What were you wearing?'
Clothes. Like everyone else.
