A “See You Later” As I Leave For College

A “See You Later” As I Leave For College

Not only have you made me a better person but you have changed my life for the better, and I will be forever grateful.

In just a few days, I’ll be making the long and nerve-wracking drive away from home (a busy city filled with bright lights, constant traffic, and buildings that cover every street) to a rural village in upstate New York (a place that has a bunch of trees, frequently empty roads, and lots of snow). The most drastic change, however, will be the people around me as we all go our separate ways. But even so, although we may be in different places in the world having different experiences, I know they’ll always be there right by my side.

To my family,

Your little girl is finally grown up and making her way to college! There were probably so many worries going through your minds as I approached senior year of high school and started filling out college applications (like what if she doesn’t get enough sleep at school, what if she gets sick, is she going to be able to cook her own food, how is she going to take care of herself) and started talking about the future. These worries were probably doubled when I announced that I was going to school out-of-state, and tripled when you realized that just because I was going to New York, that didn’t mean I was going to New York City or anything like it. You continued to worry as I filed for financial aid, filled out health insurance forms, went college dorm shopping, started emptying out my bedroom, and started to pack the car with all my suitcases and belongings that reminded me of home.

And I don’t want to necessarily say, ‘don’t worry,’ because to be honest, I’m kind of nervous for college too. But I do want to say thank you. Thank you for being such an amazing rock that has grounded and supported me physically, financially, and emotionally. Thank you for teaching me the more important things in life, like how to act polite and follow my passions. Thank you for listening to me when I had a problem, but also letting me know when I made a mistake. Trust me when I say that I will call you as much as I can, that I will keep up with my studies and that I will let you know if there ever is a reason to worry about something. No matter what, I will miss you so so much and I hope to do you proud.

To the high school friends I better stay in contact with,

There’s a lot of you, and you all come from different places in my life (whether it be from classes, extracurricular activities, work) but one thing is the same: each and every one of you made my high school experience ten times more exciting and ten times more fun. Whether we were fooling around while the teacher was talking, making memories during practices and rehearsals, or making fun of each other right before our shifts started, you reminded me how it’s okay to work hard and relax once in a while. Some of my best moments are with you, and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve cried from laughing so hard through our interactions.

So make sure that you don’t forget me too quickly, because in a couple of months when I’m back I’ll be asking for a coffee date and all the stories you have to share.

To the high school friends I might not see again,

Separation and distance is inevitable, but you have undoubtedly made an impact on who I am as a person. We’re driving on different roads in life and have both turned in opposite directions, but that doesn’t mean our time together in the past has been forgotten. Thank you for changing my high school experience and I wish you the best of luck in your future.

To my best friends,

I remember like it was yesterday when we all met for the first time. It was the first day of 6th grade, and we thought we were such bigshot middle schoolers (even with our horrendous haircuts and even more horrendous attitudes) who could take on the world. Meeting each other individually was a different story, but when the three of us came together, we just clicked. Hanging out at each other’s houses, doing every school project together, playing stupid games (including one that involved eating a raw onion; I’m just glad I didn’t have to do it), talking about our problems, crying to each other, and every experience we had together made me a happier person. I never thought I would find people who would understand and relate to me so well, but I’m glad I did.

We’ll all be in different states away from home with people we’ve never met, sights we’ve never seen, and adventures waiting to happen. But be prepared for me to visit your dorm one day carrying a duffle bag filled with clothes, a toothbrush, and a bunch of stories that I haven’t already told in our planned biweekly video chat sessions. And even when we may get busy with school and life, I’ll always make sure to send a text in our group chat or let you know how much I miss you.

It’s ride or die for us three, and I wouldn’t want it to be with anyone else.

And lastly, to all my loved ones in general:

Although I’ll be leaving for college soon, I’ll never be leaving you. We may be separated by miles of land, long periods of time, and obstacles that may stop us from physically seeing each other in life, but you will always be in my heart and in my mind. Not only have you made me a better person but you have changed my life for the better, and I will be forever grateful. Even though I’m heading off to college, I love you, and I’ll see you again.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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