I Began Reminding Myself Of My Worth, And I'm Glad I Did

I Began Reminding Myself Of My Worth, And I'm So Glad I Did

When I began reminding myself of my worth, I realized how important I am.


In today's day and age, it is so easy to get caught up in how we should look or what we should be doing. We see what other people look like, what their lives are like, and we begin to compare ourselves to them. I did this for quite a while. In fact, I still do it sometimes.

When I began reminding myself of my worth, I noticed how different I was seeing myself.

I realized I may not be like people around me, but that does not mean I don't get to experience life like others. I can still look in the mirror and tell myself I am beautiful. I can still wear sweats, and feel like a queen. I am not less because I do not match the people around me.

Throughout my day, I tell myself all the things I love about who I am. I love my personality. Sure, I might be a little weird, but I am okay with that. I love how I am not afraid to make a fool of myself. I may say something along the lines of: "why did I do that?" It makes me happy, though.

I will tell myself all I have overcome. I am strong. I am nowhere near weak. I have been to hell and back. Yet, I still dance with joy. I don't tell myself that for a round of applause. I tell myself that to be reminded of how much I can do. When someone tries to myself, I won't be able to accomplish something, I say: "Watch me."

We are so hard on ourselves. It wrecks us.

We start to believe what we are saying to ourselves. We truly think we are not capable. In all reality, that is not true. When I began reminding myself of my worth, I knew I could accomplish what I never thought I could. I realized the words people once spoke to me were far from the truth.

I began reminding myself of my worth, and it has led to so much joy. It has led to feeling free from all of the lies of the world. I know I do not need to look a certain way or be someone I am not. I know I am beautiful. Our world has so many standards, but those standards do not say who I am.

Now, I look in the mirror and I see the girl who is full of life.

I see the girl who is no longer broken from the words people once spoke to me. I see the girl who believes in herself. I love that girl.

When I began reminding myself of my worth, I realized how important I am. I am so glad I decided to do this daily ritual. It has helped me so much. It has done much more than leading me to believe I am beautiful. It has led me to know I can accomplish whatever I set my mind to.

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A list Of 15 Inspiring Words That Mean So Much

A single word can mean a lot.

Positivity is so important in life. A lot of times we always go to quotes for empowerment but I have realized that just one word can be just as powerful. Here is a list of inspiring words.

1. Worthy

Realizing your self-worth is important. Self-worth can really make or break a persons personality. Always know that you are worthy of respect. And also, never compare yourself to others.

2. Courage

Be courageous in life. Life has so many opportunities so do not be scared to grasp any opportunity that comes your way. You have the ability to do anything you have your heart and mind set to do, even the things that frighten you.

3. Enough

When you are feeling down and feeling that nothing you do is ever good enough, know that you are more than enough. And yes there is always room for improvement but when it comes to my self-worth I always have to remind myself that I am enough.

4. Blessed

Be thankful. A lot of times we forget how blessed we are. We focus so much on stress and the bad things that are going on in our lives that we tend to forget all of the beautiful things we have in life.

5. Focus

Focus on your goals, focus on positive things, and focus on the ones you love. Do not focus on things that will keep you from not reaching your goals and people that do not have good intentions for your life.

6. Laugh

Laughing is one of the best forms of medicine. Life is truly better with laughter.

7. Warrior

Through the good and the bad you are a warrior. Be strong, soldier.

8. Seek

Seek new things. Allow yourself to grow in life. Do not just be stuck.

9. Faith

During the bad times, no matter the circumstances, have faith that everything will be all right.

10. Live

Start living because life is honestly way too short. Live life the way you want to live. Do not let anyone try to control you.

11. Enjoy

Enjoy everything that life has to offer. Enjoy even the littlest of things because, as I said before, life is short. And plus, there is no time to live life with regrets.

12. Believe

Believe in yourself and never stop. Believing in yourself brings so many blessings and opportunities in your life.

13. Serendipity

A lot of times we look for things to fill an empty void that we have. Usually what we are looking for comes when we are not looking at all. Your serendipity will come.

14. Create

Share your ideas with the world. Creativity brings change to your life. However you chose to use your creativity do not be scared to show your intelligence, talent, and passion.

15. Love

The world is already full of so much hate, so love unconditionally with all your heart.

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To The Girls Who Have Doubts About Their Worth

You can do so much more than you know!


I won't say I'm a professional at this, but it is a frequent state of mind. I think that's just something we all go through. Whether it be during high school, college, or even later. There's a small part of your brain that whispers, "You don't deserve this" or "You're not good enough." And despite all of your accomplishments and how far you've come, you believe it. It's not your fault, it's none of ours, it's just something that makes us second guess everything about ourselves. It's not intentional, it just happens. Sometimes even without us knowing it. So, this article is for you all. I hope it helps.

This past semester has been the best one of my three years of college. I got the best grades, the highest GPA, and I actually enjoyed myself. I am in my major classes, and it really made me proud that I made the scary switch. I am in a much better place and I am so thankful. I am changing apartments next year and living in the same complex as three of my best friends. I am going to get a job and enjoy my senior year. So, despite having all of these amazing things in my life, there is still a sliver of doubt that I don't deserve it. Since I found my passion, I'm not allowed to have two fantastic internships or a summer job. Or time next semester to enjoy my college career. And it doesn't matter how many times my mom reassures me that I'm doing great or my friends tell me that this is the happiest they've seen me, I still have this doubt.

My advice for dealing with the negative thoughts is this: tune them out. Say f*** it, and just do your thing.

All you can do is better yourself and your future. Take risks and do something that you actually enjoy. I didn't realize how much I hated business until I switched to journalism. Even a small change like that has really turned my entire life around. I have met so many fun and awesome people that I now call my friends because of this switch. It's OK to be nervous but take that leap of faith. Trust yourself. You are capable of so much more than you let yourself believe. As long as you are safe and careful, make things happen. Apply for that job. Get that tattoo. Do what makes you happy. Because that's all any of us want. We all want to be happy, and if you can do that, you can do anything.

Yes, putting yourself out into the world is super scary. But it's worth it when it matters and it's something you want to do. You are worth so much more than you are aware of, and that stupid, little voice in the back of your head should be your motivation. It should push you to become the best version of yourself you can be. Don't let it hold you back, let it push you forward. You don't want to miss out on awesome opportunities because of that stupid voice, right? Right! So, just tell that voice, "Give it your best shot" because you just use that voice to motivate yourself to do the best you can. Nothing should hold you back, even that little voice, because, you can move mountains and change the world.

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