Why Recruitment Is The Most Stressful Time For Greeks

Why Recruitment Is The Most Stressful Time For Greeks

A look at both the opinion of an active and a potential new member

For Greek life organizations everywhere it's recruitment season. The time where we try and try to get amazing people to join our organization and be a part of something bigger than themselves. That being said, it's stressful for both the actives and the potential new members (PNMs) to go through this process.

For the PNMs it can be a number of things that stress you out. With this being my first recruitment as an active I speak the truth when I say just walking into the room as a PNM is scary.

You don't know what you will be asked or what you should say in response to their questions. You just know you want to be involved and you like this organization's way of being involved. My advice to someone in a position I was in just last semester would be to ask questions. We as actives want to see that you are interested in our organization and this also gives us insight into your values and beliefs.

Also, another word of advice to potential new members, be honest with the actives. If you just want to wear a pair of letters and say you are in a sorority then a Greek life organization is not the place for you. Greek life is about more than just letters or parties, it's about being a part of a community. By lying to an active, you will decrease the trust and bonds that have been created by that community. Just be yourself and I promise you will find your place.

Now as for the actives I know it's stressful having to decide whether a person is the right fit for your organization or not. Just use your best judgement and think about whether you could see this PNM being an integral part of the organization. If you don't see them fitting in well or being involved then maybe they aren't right for your organization.

Recruitment is rough on everyone and it's easy for good people to slip through the cracks or feel like they won't find their place. Trust me when I tell you, if you are honest, kind, and looking to be involved then a Greek organization is the place for you and you will find your home among the many chapters on your college campus.

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To The Grandmothers Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

Sincerely, the loving granddaughters.

The relationship between a grandmother and her granddaughter is something so uniquely special and something to be treasured forever.

Your grandma loves you like you are her own daughter and adores you no matter what. She is the first person you run to when you have a problem with your parents and she never fails to grace you with the most comforting advice.

She may be guilty of spoiling you rotten but still makes sure to stress the importance of being thankful and kind.

Your grandma has most likely lived through every obstacle that you are experiencing now as a young adult and always knows just exactly what to say.

She grew up in another generation where things were probably much harder for young women than they are today.

She is a walking example of perseverance, strength, and grace who you aim to be like someday.

Your grandma teaches you the lessons she had to learn the hard way because she does not want you to make the same mistakes she did when she was growing up.

Her hugs never fail to warm your heart, her smile never fails to make you smile, and her laugh never fails to brighten your day.

She inspires you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

You only hope that one day you can be the mother and grandmother she was to you.

A piece of girl’s heart will forever belong to her grandma that no one could ever replace.

She is the matriarch of your family and is the glue that holds you all together.

Grandmothers play such an important role in helping their granddaughters to grow into strong, intelligent, kind women.

She teaches you how to love and how to forgive.

Without the unconditional love of your grandma, you would not be the woman you are today.

To all of the grandmothers out there, thank you for being you.


the loving granddaughters

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Being The Last Friend To Turn 21 Isn't ALL Bad

All your friends have turned 21, but that is okay


You may think being the last one out of your friend group to turn twenty-one is the worst thing in the world, but in all honesty, it doesn't have to be. One of the biggest perks is that everyone of your friends can go out to the bars with you on your birthday. All the people who turn twenty-one first have to wait for people to be able to go out with them, but you get to celebrate your birthday with all of your friends.

Another huge reason you should feel okay with being last to turn twenty-one is thinking about all the money you are saving. The bars are expensive. When you don't go to the bars you are saving so much money because an average bar drink is about seven dollars. This being said seven dollars multiple times a night, multiple nights a week really adds up, so you are going to have to budget your money better.

You don't have to be the one to buy alcohol for everyone else. Having a ton of people ask you to buy them alcohol must get annoying at a point, and if you're the youngest out of your friends, no one will be asking you to do liquor store runs for them because they can all go already for themselves.

The biggest reason is that you can enjoy being young. You should still continue to enjoy going to house parties and just being able to hang out with friends without having to go to the bars. Spend these months before you turn twenty-one just being able to enjoy life without feeling obligated to go out to the bars all the time. You have a great excuse when you don't want to drink on a weekday to just stay in. This being said it will be your turn to turn twenty-one soon.


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